"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What would you suggest in my situation?

Dan08

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Currently seeing a girl for a couple weeks now, casual secz, she's into me in a big way and basically comes over on demand to bang and then spends the night usually before round 2 in the morning. She's that into me that I wonder if she see's this developing to a relationship so I'm not sure where to take this.

Question is I think I've got a **** buddy relationship developing here but I'm not sure...what I want to know is how do you think I should play this.


A) Keep to casual secz, secz is good after all. Don't bring anything up and go with the flow.

B) Ask her what she wants from what we've got, where she see's it going.

C) Wait for her to ask about where things are going.

D) Wait for her to ask for exclusivity and go with it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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F@ck What She Wants.....

What YOU want.
 

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The question is what do you want from her.

I love fvckbuddies that I don't have to take out to dinner, that don't ask me if I talk to other girls, that never go true my phone, that don't give me headaches all the time. Just fvck, drink, have fun and kick her out and hit up another plate. But that's me.

Definitely A and def not B.

It's her job to bring up 'relationship' to think about it, it's your job to give her the best nights, to let her dripp all wet thinking about you when shes alone. Just keep a foot out of the door, don't get too attached, go with the flow like you said and enjoy your time together. Let her bring the exclusive part up and choose what you want from there.
 
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