"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What would you suggest in my situation?

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Dan08

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Currently seeing a girl for a couple weeks now, casual secz, she's into me in a big way and basically comes over on demand to bang and then spends the night usually before round 2 in the morning. She's that into me that I wonder if she see's this developing to a relationship so I'm not sure where to take this.

Question is I think I've got a **** buddy relationship developing here but I'm not sure...what I want to know is how do you think I should play this.


A) Keep to casual secz, secz is good after all. Don't bring anything up and go with the flow.

B) Ask her what she wants from what we've got, where she see's it going.

C) Wait for her to ask about where things are going.

D) Wait for her to ask for exclusivity and go with it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Maximus Rex

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F@ck What She Wants.....

What YOU want.
 
TheGambino

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The question is what do you want from her.

I love fvckbuddies that I don't have to take out to dinner, that don't ask me if I talk to other girls, that never go true my phone, that don't give me headaches all the time. Just fvck, drink, have fun and kick her out and hit up another plate. But that's me.

Definitely A and def not B.

It's her job to bring up 'relationship' to think about it, it's your job to give her the best nights, to let her dripp all wet thinking about you when shes alone. Just keep a foot out of the door, don't get too attached, go with the flow like you said and enjoy your time together. Let her bring the exclusive part up and choose what you want from there.
 
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