"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What would you suggest in my situation?

Dan08

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Currently seeing a girl for a couple weeks now, casual secz, she's into me in a big way and basically comes over on demand to bang and then spends the night usually before round 2 in the morning. She's that into me that I wonder if she see's this developing to a relationship so I'm not sure where to take this.

Question is I think I've got a **** buddy relationship developing here but I'm not sure...what I want to know is how do you think I should play this.


A) Keep to casual secz, secz is good after all. Don't bring anything up and go with the flow.

B) Ask her what she wants from what we've got, where she see's it going.

C) Wait for her to ask about where things are going.

D) Wait for her to ask for exclusivity and go with it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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F@ck What She Wants.....

What YOU want.
 

TheGambino

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The question is what do you want from her.

I love fvckbuddies that I don't have to take out to dinner, that don't ask me if I talk to other girls, that never go true my phone, that don't give me headaches all the time. Just fvck, drink, have fun and kick her out and hit up another plate. But that's me.

Definitely A and def not B.

It's her job to bring up 'relationship' to think about it, it's your job to give her the best nights, to let her dripp all wet thinking about you when shes alone. Just keep a foot out of the door, don't get too attached, go with the flow like you said and enjoy your time together. Let her bring the exclusive part up and choose what you want from there.
 
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