"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What would you have done?

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Ok I want to share something that happened to me a few days ago, and I'm going to try to make this story as short as possible.Ok, I was walking out of a local store when some guy came up to me(He was about 17-19 years old), this is what happened I am 100% serious.

Him: Hello, my name is ****** *sticks out hand*

Me: Oh, hi my names ***** *shakes hand*

Him: Are you gay?

Me: No.

Him: *looks VERY sceptical, tilts chin up and everything* Are you sure?

Me: Yeah, I'm pretty sure.

Him: You never thought about it?

Me: No.

Him: Come on, you never wanted to try it, even once?

Me: No, not really...Why do I look gay? Is it the earrings? (I got 3 piercings last week.)

Him: That too, but its just something else...

Me: Well, I'm not gay.

Him: Are you sure? You dont want a ******* or something?

Me: Uhhh, no...I'm good.

*I start to walk away, but he follows*

Him: So where do you live around here?

Me: *Points in a general direction* Over there.

Him: Thats cool, where are you going now?

Me: To another store, and then my job...

Him: What store?

Me: *Points very far away* That one.

Him: Oh, well I have to go, it was nice meeting you, your a good looking guy.

Me: ...Thanks.

*he walks away and I try to figure out wtf just happened.*


Whats your take on this? Was this a compliment? lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don Juan
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At the begining he was playing cool, he is a gay dude sarging and was trying to find out if you were gay.

But at the moment he started asking you where you were going or where you live after you walked away from him, you should have demanded some respect from this guy instead of giving some generic answers.
 

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You should've told him "STFU and suck my ****". -oh wait, he probably would've done that.

No go.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ease

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well he deserves props for his very direct natural day game.
 
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