"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What would you have done?

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Ok I want to share something that happened to me a few days ago, and I'm going to try to make this story as short as possible.Ok, I was walking out of a local store when some guy came up to me(He was about 17-19 years old), this is what happened I am 100% serious.

Him: Hello, my name is ****** *sticks out hand*

Me: Oh, hi my names ***** *shakes hand*

Him: Are you gay?

Me: No.

Him: *looks VERY sceptical, tilts chin up and everything* Are you sure?

Me: Yeah, I'm pretty sure.

Him: You never thought about it?

Me: No.

Him: Come on, you never wanted to try it, even once?

Me: No, not really...Why do I look gay? Is it the earrings? (I got 3 piercings last week.)

Him: That too, but its just something else...

Me: Well, I'm not gay.

Him: Are you sure? You dont want a ******* or something?

Me: Uhhh, no...I'm good.

*I start to walk away, but he follows*

Him: So where do you live around here?

Me: *Points in a general direction* Over there.

Him: Thats cool, where are you going now?

Me: To another store, and then my job...

Him: What store?

Me: *Points very far away* That one.

Him: Oh, well I have to go, it was nice meeting you, your a good looking guy.

Me: ...Thanks.

*he walks away and I try to figure out wtf just happened.*


Whats your take on this? Was this a compliment? lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ambition Now

Don Juan
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At the begining he was playing cool, he is a gay dude sarging and was trying to find out if you were gay.

But at the moment he started asking you where you were going or where you live after you walked away from him, you should have demanded some respect from this guy instead of giving some generic answers.
 

Game_going_good

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You should've told him "STFU and suck my ****". -oh wait, he probably would've done that.

No go.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ease

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well he deserves props for his very direct natural day game.
 
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