"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What would you have done?

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Ok I want to share something that happened to me a few days ago, and I'm going to try to make this story as short as possible.Ok, I was walking out of a local store when some guy came up to me(He was about 17-19 years old), this is what happened I am 100% serious.

Him: Hello, my name is ****** *sticks out hand*

Me: Oh, hi my names ***** *shakes hand*

Him: Are you gay?

Me: No.

Him: *looks VERY sceptical, tilts chin up and everything* Are you sure?

Me: Yeah, I'm pretty sure.

Him: You never thought about it?

Me: No.

Him: Come on, you never wanted to try it, even once?

Me: No, not really...Why do I look gay? Is it the earrings? (I got 3 piercings last week.)

Him: That too, but its just something else...

Me: Well, I'm not gay.

Him: Are you sure? You dont want a ******* or something?

Me: Uhhh, no...I'm good.

*I start to walk away, but he follows*

Him: So where do you live around here?

Me: *Points in a general direction* Over there.

Him: Thats cool, where are you going now?

Me: To another store, and then my job...

Him: What store?

Me: *Points very far away* That one.

Him: Oh, well I have to go, it was nice meeting you, your a good looking guy.

Me: ...Thanks.

*he walks away and I try to figure out wtf just happened.*


Whats your take on this? Was this a compliment? lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ambition Now

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At the begining he was playing cool, he is a gay dude sarging and was trying to find out if you were gay.

But at the moment he started asking you where you were going or where you live after you walked away from him, you should have demanded some respect from this guy instead of giving some generic answers.
 

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Don Juan
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You should've told him "STFU and suck my ****". -oh wait, he probably would've done that.

No go.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ease

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well he deserves props for his very direct natural day game.
 
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