"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok I want to share something that happened to me a few days ago, and I'm going to try to make this story as short as possible.Ok, I was walking out of a local store when some guy came up to me(He was about 17-19 years old), this is what happened I am 100% serious.

Him: Hello, my name is ****** *sticks out hand*

Me: Oh, hi my names ***** *shakes hand*

Him: Are you gay?

Me: No.

Him: *looks VERY sceptical, tilts chin up and everything* Are you sure?

Me: Yeah, I'm pretty sure.

Him: You never thought about it?

Me: No.

Him: Come on, you never wanted to try it, even once?

Me: No, not really...Why do I look gay? Is it the earrings? (I got 3 piercings last week.)

Him: That too, but its just something else...

Me: Well, I'm not gay.

Him: Are you sure? You dont want a ******* or something?

Me: Uhhh, no...I'm good.

*I start to walk away, but he follows*

Him: So where do you live around here?

Me: *Points in a general direction* Over there.

Him: Thats cool, where are you going now?

Me: To another store, and then my job...

Him: What store?

Me: *Points very far away* That one.

Him: Oh, well I have to go, it was nice meeting you, your a good looking guy.

Me: ...Thanks.

*he walks away and I try to figure out wtf just happened.*


Whats your take on this? Was this a compliment? lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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At the begining he was playing cool, he is a gay dude sarging and was trying to find out if you were gay.

But at the moment he started asking you where you were going or where you live after you walked away from him, you should have demanded some respect from this guy instead of giving some generic answers.
 

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You should've told him "STFU and suck my ****". -oh wait, he probably would've done that.

No go.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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well he deserves props for his very direct natural day game.
 
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