"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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stoner1129

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Well I got on my myspace today and I saw that I had a friend request. It was from some hb7, and with the request she sent "Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime". I didn't know what to reply with so my brother left her this "thanks your pretty fine yourself and ya we should talk" as a comment on her page.
She hasn't been on since, but anyways I was just wonderin, what some of you guys woulda said instead of what my brother did.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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stoner1129 said:
Well I got on my myspace today and I saw that I had a friend request. It was from some hb7, and with the request she sent "Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime". I didn't know what to reply with so my brother left her this "thanks your pretty fine yourself and ya we should talk" as a comment on her page.
She hasn't been on since, but anyways I was just wonderin, what some of you guys woulda said instead of what my brother did.

You should have went for the #.
 

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stoner1129 said:
Well I got on my myspace today and I saw that I had a friend request. It was from some hb7, and with the request she sent "Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime". I didn't know what to reply with so my brother left her this "thanks your pretty fine yourself and ya we should talk" as a comment on her page.
She hasn't been on since, but anyways I was just wonderin, what some of you guys woulda said instead of what my brother did.
Are you sure it wasn't just one of those spam/porn profiles?
 

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She's cute but are you sure she's real?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime"

I woulda hit her back with
"I know, and if you want to talk to me, there's already a pretty big line up so you might have to wait a few years :p"
 

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"Sure, it'll be $4.99 a minute. I take credit cards, but no PayPal."
 

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Lol yeah i'm sure it's real, she has pics of her and her friends and stuff. I'm really not that experienced with girls, so if she like sends anything back i'll let you guys know.

What should I have said for a # close, should I have been like "Well how about you give me ur # and i'll call you"??
 

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Well, I would recommend reading her page then. You'll notice that almost all the comments on her page seem to be random people she friended, and it looks like she used the same cheesy line she gave you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think she is a troll actually, she's one of my cousin's friends on there, and my couzin is a girl, so i'll guess i'll have to ask my cuz 'bout her lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i checked it out and your a decent looking guy...

browse girls and message them and their top friends

use this...

wow your a cutie :)

lets chat... whats up with u??


I call troll on the other profile
 

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lol ok cool, just she now asked me to tell her about myself, so what should i say to sound cool
she sent me this "well i am tall, mexican,130 pounds,and i am in to guys like u so tell me about u? beautiful"
 

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stop depending on other people to write your own messages. What do you want to say? And if you are this lame online how the hell will you keep up with her in real life in a real conversation. You need to stop thinking so much and just go with the flow. Get out of your head. Do you know what to do in a convo with a female at all?

First, don't talk about yourself.

Second get off the internet with her as soon as possible. Get a phone number, set up a meet up for coffee somewhere and talk to her.

Talk about her, get her life story, find out what she's about. Lead the convo, lead the interaction.

Set up a day 2 or second date so you can do something fun. Get her to your crib, tap that ass. Have fun!

These are the basics. Learn em.
 

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well she asked what sports i did so i sent this lol
i wreslte, maybe i can show u some moves, what do u do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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