"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What would you guys have said?

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Well I got on my myspace today and I saw that I had a friend request. It was from some hb7, and with the request she sent "Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime". I didn't know what to reply with so my brother left her this "thanks your pretty fine yourself and ya we should talk" as a comment on her page.
She hasn't been on since, but anyways I was just wonderin, what some of you guys woulda said instead of what my brother did.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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stoner1129 said:
Well I got on my myspace today and I saw that I had a friend request. It was from some hb7, and with the request she sent "Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime". I didn't know what to reply with so my brother left her this "thanks your pretty fine yourself and ya we should talk" as a comment on her page.
She hasn't been on since, but anyways I was just wonderin, what some of you guys woulda said instead of what my brother did.
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You should have went for the #.
 
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stoner1129 said:
Well I got on my myspace today and I saw that I had a friend request. It was from some hb7, and with the request she sent "Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime". I didn't know what to reply with so my brother left her this "thanks your pretty fine yourself and ya we should talk" as a comment on her page.
She hasn't been on since, but anyways I was just wonderin, what some of you guys woulda said instead of what my brother did.
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Are you sure it wasn't just one of those spam/porn profiles?
 
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She's cute but are you sure she's real?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Hey ur sexy, maybe we can talk sometime"

I woulda hit her back with
"I know, and if you want to talk to me, there's already a pretty big line up so you might have to wait a few years :p"
 
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"Sure, it'll be $4.99 a minute. I take credit cards, but no PayPal."
 
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Lol yeah i'm sure it's real, she has pics of her and her friends and stuff. I'm really not that experienced with girls, so if she like sends anything back i'll let you guys know.

What should I have said for a # close, should I have been like "Well how about you give me ur # and i'll call you"??
 
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Well, I would recommend reading her page then. You'll notice that almost all the comments on her page seem to be random people she friended, and it looks like she used the same cheesy line she gave you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think she is a troll actually, she's one of my cousin's friends on there, and my couzin is a girl, so i'll guess i'll have to ask my cuz 'bout her lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i checked it out and your a decent looking guy...

browse girls and message them and their top friends

use this...

wow your a cutie :)

lets chat... whats up with u??


I call troll on the other profile
 
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lol ok cool, just she now asked me to tell her about myself, so what should i say to sound cool
she sent me this "well i am tall, mexican,130 pounds,and i am in to guys like u so tell me about u? beautiful"
 
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stop depending on other people to write your own messages. What do you want to say? And if you are this lame online how the hell will you keep up with her in real life in a real conversation. You need to stop thinking so much and just go with the flow. Get out of your head. Do you know what to do in a convo with a female at all?

First, don't talk about yourself.

Second get off the internet with her as soon as possible. Get a phone number, set up a meet up for coffee somewhere and talk to her.

Talk about her, get her life story, find out what she's about. Lead the convo, lead the interaction.

Set up a day 2 or second date so you can do something fun. Get her to your crib, tap that ass. Have fun!

These are the basics. Learn em.
 
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well she asked what sports i did so i sent this lol
i wreslte, maybe i can show u some moves, what do u do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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