"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What would you do ?

WeakMenNeverRise

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Whats up everybody. Ok here's the deal. Theres this chick right. I'm 23 and ust graduated from college, and yes I do still live at home. I've got a degree in computer science but it is TOUGH finding a good job these days. Anyway, I digress. I was talking to this chick the other night and the convo got really sexual and she was joking how she was gonna get me to go down and I was like nah shorty, i don't do that. And then I was like well what will you do for me, just to see what she'd say. And after about 10 minutes of beating around the bush, and saying that certain things were mere childs play, she told me that she gives head and that an these are her exact words " not swallowing is down right rude." Now immediately I had visions of nuttin like it wasn't nuttin on this chick. But here's the problem, I'm 23 and she's only 18 and a freshman in college. Plus, her body is aight but her face is not the tightest. And then. she has some serious emotional issues. I takled to her from the crib the other night and she hit me back today after getting my number on her caller id, basically i never gave it to her and i think she may have stalker potential. My question is, givin all the circumstance i.e. age, looks, and mental state, should I play the role of the big bad wolf and get my jizz on or take the high road and leave this chick alone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fenderules

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just do it FAST. dont let her get attached and do NOT do it at home if she could be stalker like
 

AverageFC

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she wants you cause youre an older man. hit it and quit it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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