"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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what would YOU do!?

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CoRVeTTe6699

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what would your next step be in this situation:

- you met a girl in an AOL chatroom

- you met up with her and her friends and she is HOT

- you find out shes scared that you're gonna rape her
(we both never hung out with online people before...its kinda weird i guess)

- the next day she wrote in her journal it was "fun and scary"

- after we hung out i talked to her Online the next day..we talked and she sent me pictures of her self she wouldnt send me before. (normal pictures)


Today is Friday..i hung out with her on Tuesday...what's my next step to making this girl mine?

ex) what should i do in these various aspects: (online/phone/asking her to hang out again/things to say to her)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First, read the Bible. I'm sure every question you've asked will be answered in there. Other than that, it looks like you've got the situation under control. Let things roll smoothly, add some kino in the next time you see her and maybe go for the kiss if the mood's right..
 
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plan an interesting date, call her, ask her to go on it with you. if this goes really well, you can try the kiss. if it sucks, common sense should tell you to wait on that. once you hook the kiss, she's pretty much yours.

side note, are you quoting that, "what would YOU do!?" from that irish dude?
 
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If you have her phone number, ease up on the talk on AOL, do not ask her to hang out (you have romantic intentions, act like it), and just ask her on a date and go have a good time.

I don't think anyone can help you with things to say. That's part of you and the way you are. The most you can do is keep the conversation 20/80 on her side. If she isn't interested, she isn't interested, simple as that. Ask her on a date and find out.

Uh... well she did say that she thought you were gonna rape her, and that's a little odd. But I don't know your perception of it, or what kinda people you are, so I can't comment on that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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