"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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what would YOU do!?

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CoRVeTTe6699

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what would your next step be in this situation:

- you met a girl in an AOL chatroom

- you met up with her and her friends and she is HOT

- you find out shes scared that you're gonna rape her
(we both never hung out with online people before...its kinda weird i guess)

- the next day she wrote in her journal it was "fun and scary"

- after we hung out i talked to her Online the next day..we talked and she sent me pictures of her self she wouldnt send me before. (normal pictures)


Today is Friday..i hung out with her on Tuesday...what's my next step to making this girl mine?

ex) what should i do in these various aspects: (online/phone/asking her to hang out again/things to say to her)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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First, read the Bible. I'm sure every question you've asked will be answered in there. Other than that, it looks like you've got the situation under control. Let things roll smoothly, add some kino in the next time you see her and maybe go for the kiss if the mood's right..
 
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plan an interesting date, call her, ask her to go on it with you. if this goes really well, you can try the kiss. if it sucks, common sense should tell you to wait on that. once you hook the kiss, she's pretty much yours.

side note, are you quoting that, "what would YOU do!?" from that irish dude?
 
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If you have her phone number, ease up on the talk on AOL, do not ask her to hang out (you have romantic intentions, act like it), and just ask her on a date and go have a good time.

I don't think anyone can help you with things to say. That's part of you and the way you are. The most you can do is keep the conversation 20/80 on her side. If she isn't interested, she isn't interested, simple as that. Ask her on a date and find out.

Uh... well she did say that she thought you were gonna rape her, and that's a little odd. But I don't know your perception of it, or what kinda people you are, so I can't comment on that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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