"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what would YOU do!?

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CoRVeTTe6699

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what would your next step be in this situation:

- you met a girl in an AOL chatroom

- you met up with her and her friends and she is HOT

- you find out shes scared that you're gonna rape her
(we both never hung out with online people before...its kinda weird i guess)

- the next day she wrote in her journal it was "fun and scary"

- after we hung out i talked to her Online the next day..we talked and she sent me pictures of her self she wouldnt send me before. (normal pictures)


Today is Friday..i hung out with her on Tuesday...what's my next step to making this girl mine?

ex) what should i do in these various aspects: (online/phone/asking her to hang out again/things to say to her)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First, read the Bible. I'm sure every question you've asked will be answered in there. Other than that, it looks like you've got the situation under control. Let things roll smoothly, add some kino in the next time you see her and maybe go for the kiss if the mood's right..
 
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plan an interesting date, call her, ask her to go on it with you. if this goes really well, you can try the kiss. if it sucks, common sense should tell you to wait on that. once you hook the kiss, she's pretty much yours.

side note, are you quoting that, "what would YOU do!?" from that irish dude?
 
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If you have her phone number, ease up on the talk on AOL, do not ask her to hang out (you have romantic intentions, act like it), and just ask her on a date and go have a good time.

I don't think anyone can help you with things to say. That's part of you and the way you are. The most you can do is keep the conversation 20/80 on her side. If she isn't interested, she isn't interested, simple as that. Ask her on a date and find out.

Uh... well she did say that she thought you were gonna rape her, and that's a little odd. But I don't know your perception of it, or what kinda people you are, so I can't comment on that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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