redskinsfan92
Master Don Juan
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That is a level of disrespect that must must not be tolerated. Even her considering it is enough for to walk off and cut her off completely immediately.
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Depends on the rapper. Dababy is considered a good looking guy by a lot of women, that's why I said that. Its not like the ugly guy with money and fame, but her being being gone for 30 mins would be a whole different scenario that I would give a different response to@17 shots if you think rappers won't hit that you are not dealing with reality. I work in a place where we get a lot of rappers, athletes and other celebrities and they bring in women like this and even lower grade women by the truck load . In that 30 minutes if this is real she at least gave the rapper a Bj. You can tell she is ready to fuuck him. If that was me I would calmly tell her it's over and leave, hell I would even have a sly smile on my face and she would simply not exist in my reality anymore. This guy isn't in the position of power in the relationship, he clearly lost the moment he gave her an ultimatum. Someone in the position of power doesn't make ultimatums he simply drops her and replaces her. By the way from what I have seen celebrities get a lot of quantity but not as much quality as you think in the poozy department, sure I have seen them get some stunners ,but most of the women that I have seen them get are about the same level as this chick.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ok man daaamn lol. I'm not disagreeing with you that it's possible. I just don't assume negative things are going to happen... I'm not the type to even have a girlfriend or to be that worried about a chick anyways so it just wouldn't bother me@17 shots even if it's just five minutes it's more than enough time for her to give him her contact info or set something up for later. The reason why you drop her and go replace her is for your own self respect, not only did she disrespect him but she did it in the most public way possible. Even if this is fake I wouldn't go along with this crap, atal some point you have to have some self respect. If you think that being an ugly celebrity is some kind of handicap when it comes to women or that a good looking male celebrity won't fuuck that women 12 to 20 ways till Tuesday you haven't been around many Male celebrities and groupies and you have a few things to do learn.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.