"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What would you do?

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Hi
First of all please excuse my English as it's not my first language.
Now .. here's the story of this girl:

I met her 'accidentaly' on the internet (somenone gave her my Yahoo ID 'by mistake') about 3 weeks ago. I did a pretty good job raising her interest level - she told me many times she wanted to meet me in person.
So we've met... by mistake.. 2 days ago.. near her dorm.. at 3'o clock in the morning.

Now.. the funny thing is we were both a bit drunk and extremely tired. Sad thing is.. we bored each other out, as we both act VERY nice when we're drunk.. At least I didn't make an ass of myself..
But since then... she's always been offline so I couldn't talk to her about that night.

I could call her.. but I have the impression she's avoiding me. So what would you guys do if you were me? Whould you call? What would you say if you called? Would you setup another 'date'.. what would you do then? Damn I have never been in this kind of situation.

Thanks.

PS. almost forgot - she's a 7.5-8
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GloriouslyInsane said:
Looks like you did a bad first impression :p
Yeap.. you're damn right about that!! Shame on me!
Still.. what would you do?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not obsessed about her as I hardly even know her, but I HATE bad first-impressions! Should I try to fix this situation.. or just say next and learn form my mistake? It would be easier to let her go, but I don't wanna give up before hearing her opinion about that night. And who knows.. maybe there's more to learn, more mistakes to make? "Persistence is the key to..don't remember", someone said.
 

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I would wait ~5-7 days after that night and call her,at the same time i would not log on to the chat/messenger whatever u used.I would say something like "Hi X,its smoke..u still owe me a drink from the bet the other night" , now u said you were both very drunk , she will say "What bet" to which you reply "I told you you won't remember,you were SOO drunk.I can't believe you,if i lost i wouldn't act like i didn't remember" , whatever she says next (except ok lets meet for that drink etc) you hang up and forget about her.Well its quite an bs and deceiving plan but if she wants to meet you again she would be looking for an excuse to do so and not ask you directly.
 

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That is f*cking amazing!!! "Bs plan" ?? You mean Brilliant-Simple plan??? Man.. THANK YOU!! BIG mistake not posting here sooner! THANKS AGAIN!!! :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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