"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What would you do?

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Hi
First of all please excuse my English as it's not my first language.
Now .. here's the story of this girl:

I met her 'accidentaly' on the internet (somenone gave her my Yahoo ID 'by mistake') about 3 weeks ago. I did a pretty good job raising her interest level - she told me many times she wanted to meet me in person.
So we've met... by mistake.. 2 days ago.. near her dorm.. at 3'o clock in the morning.

Now.. the funny thing is we were both a bit drunk and extremely tired. Sad thing is.. we bored each other out, as we both act VERY nice when we're drunk.. At least I didn't make an ass of myself..
But since then... she's always been offline so I couldn't talk to her about that night.

I could call her.. but I have the impression she's avoiding me. So what would you guys do if you were me? Whould you call? What would you say if you called? Would you setup another 'date'.. what would you do then? Damn I have never been in this kind of situation.

Thanks.

PS. almost forgot - she's a 7.5-8
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GloriouslyInsane said:
Looks like you did a bad first impression :p
Yeap.. you're damn right about that!! Shame on me!
Still.. what would you do?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not obsessed about her as I hardly even know her, but I HATE bad first-impressions! Should I try to fix this situation.. or just say next and learn form my mistake? It would be easier to let her go, but I don't wanna give up before hearing her opinion about that night. And who knows.. maybe there's more to learn, more mistakes to make? "Persistence is the key to..don't remember", someone said.
 

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I would wait ~5-7 days after that night and call her,at the same time i would not log on to the chat/messenger whatever u used.I would say something like "Hi X,its smoke..u still owe me a drink from the bet the other night" , now u said you were both very drunk , she will say "What bet" to which you reply "I told you you won't remember,you were SOO drunk.I can't believe you,if i lost i wouldn't act like i didn't remember" , whatever she says next (except ok lets meet for that drink etc) you hang up and forget about her.Well its quite an bs and deceiving plan but if she wants to meet you again she would be looking for an excuse to do so and not ask you directly.
 

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That is f*cking amazing!!! "Bs plan" ?? You mean Brilliant-Simple plan??? Man.. THANK YOU!! BIG mistake not posting here sooner! THANKS AGAIN!!! :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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