"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What would you do in this situation

captain55

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I had to settle some legal issues with my ex. She has to close out a business with me that we started and has been giving me the run around.... last night I asked her if she can meet me to sign the papers and she responds
“No.”
I said “why are you giving me this attitude? I don’t understand why your doing this. what is it going to take for you to come sign the papers with me? Chocolate strawberries? Strawberry ice cream”

And today she agreed to meet me and said “I’ll take the chocolate strawberries and ice team since You offered”

I have moved on and am banging hotter women. My anger and hate towards her has turned to be genuinely feeling kind of bad for her (she’s bpd).....

I want to go ahead and get her the ice cream and chocolate strawberries to let her know I’m over the relationship and no hard feelings...to make her stop the badmouthing about me...but I’m worried in a sick bpd’s mind will she take this as me wanting to get back with her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lizardking82

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Why would you even care about that? Get her to sign the papers you need her to sign and move on.
 
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