"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What would you do in this situation

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captain55

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I had to settle some legal issues with my ex. She has to close out a business with me that we started and has been giving me the run around.... last night I asked her if she can meet me to sign the papers and she responds
“No.”
I said “why are you giving me this attitude? I don’t understand why your doing this. what is it going to take for you to come sign the papers with me? Chocolate strawberries? Strawberry ice cream”

And today she agreed to meet me and said “I’ll take the chocolate strawberries and ice team since You offered”

I have moved on and am banging hotter women. My anger and hate towards her has turned to be genuinely feeling kind of bad for her (she’s bpd).....

I want to go ahead and get her the ice cream and chocolate strawberries to let her know I’m over the relationship and no hard feelings...to make her stop the badmouthing about me...but I’m worried in a sick bpd’s mind will she take this as me wanting to get back with her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why would you even care about that? Get her to sign the papers you need her to sign and move on.
 
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