"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A short followup question for you. Once she comes back and asks what's wrong (that I've been ignoring her), would you say it's better to tell her that we seem to be texting but never hanging out and I'm not looking for more friends, or just tell her I've been busy, and leave it at that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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user252009 said:
A short followup question for you. Once she comes back and asks what's wrong (that I've been ignoring her), would you say it's better to tell her that we seem to be texting but never hanging out and I'm not looking for more friends, or just tell her I've been busy, and leave it at that?
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Her " what's wrong? " aka you aren't giving me attention for free like you used to.

You "nothing. Everything is good with me. Just been busy, really busy. "Stay closed offer NOTHING HERE. State how busy you have been then leave it.

Her -- here she will realize she is not at the top of your score board. She needs to know she is not a priority in your life. " we need to catch up. Call me ok?"

You " if i get time ill give you a shout sometime." Then go right back to ignoring her. She is out. Let her put all the effort in because you now won't lift a finger for her.

Guys. You need to change your mentality. Get rid of the what if she what if how what if something were to blah blah blah attitude. Damn the what if. Damn the over thinking.

Here is the new attitude every guy should have. "SHE BLEW IT."

If she wants to chase you and put in all the effort then that is her prerogative.

Women blow it too. Stop chasing zero return on your investment.
 
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