ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
While she wasn't openly bisexual (at least maybe not before anyway)?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What would you do if your girl cheated on you with another girl?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Joking aside, a woman cheating with a woman is still cheating.
When I used to ask my girl if she had been with anyone else since we started dating, it meant men and women.
Remember: a woman sleeping with another woman often means she slept with another woman and her boyfriend.
When I used to ask my girl if she had been with anyone else since we started dating, it meant men and women.
Remember: a woman sleeping with another woman often means she slept with another woman and her boyfriend.
Thorninmyside
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If exclusive, close to the same reaction as if it were a dude. It might not be a c*ck, but I have no interest in competing for time, attention or sex within my own relationship.
My girlfriend in 1998 said it best "A woman saying she is bisexual is just an excuse for her to be a ho. She'll f*ck you and she'll f*ck your sister".
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Milano
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In general I wouldnt care if my woman wanted to eat some dykes pssy, but what I do wonder about is if giving her that pass will make it easier tfor her to sleep with another man later. Perhaps its a door that must be closed. Also, those dykes she is eating might be getting creampied by other dudes with diseases so it can be nasty and backfire.
Initiatedindenial
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Focusing only on the topic raised, I wouldn't feel as burned, but if she is looking for sexual satisfaction elsewhere it is still a red flag for me.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
depends on a lot of factors:
if you had feelings for this girl, dump her and NC. it's just as much cheating as if she was fvcking a dude.
if she has feelings for the other girl, dump her and NC, you're going to get dumped/cucked if you stay, maybe try and get 3-way or her to let you watch before you go.
if your relationship with her was mostly sexual, and her relationship with the girl was mostly sexual, then tell her "congratulations, we're in an open relationship now!" or "congratulations, we're FWB now" and get her to do 3 and 4-ways, let you watch/record her bang other girls, etc.
my personal opinion on the subject is that her cheating on you with a girl is actually worse because you can't compete with a woman, you don't have a vag and tits, it means that she wanted something that you can never ever provide her and you have no ability to keep her from wanting it again because it's part of who she is.
however, you could also work it in your favor if she's open about her bisexuality before you guys get serious and have like, a half open relationship where you can both see other girls and sometimes do 3-ways and stuff.
if you had feelings for this girl, dump her and NC. it's just as much cheating as if she was fvcking a dude.
if she has feelings for the other girl, dump her and NC, you're going to get dumped/cucked if you stay, maybe try and get 3-way or her to let you watch before you go.
if your relationship with her was mostly sexual, and her relationship with the girl was mostly sexual, then tell her "congratulations, we're in an open relationship now!" or "congratulations, we're FWB now" and get her to do 3 and 4-ways, let you watch/record her bang other girls, etc.
my personal opinion on the subject is that her cheating on you with a girl is actually worse because you can't compete with a woman, you don't have a vag and tits, it means that she wanted something that you can never ever provide her and you have no ability to keep her from wanting it again because it's part of who she is.
however, you could also work it in your favor if she's open about her bisexuality before you guys get serious and have like, a half open relationship where you can both see other girls and sometimes do 3-ways and stuff.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Honestly, if a girl i was dating fvcked another girl...I'd question myself as a man.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.