ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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While she wasn't openly bisexual (at least maybe not before anyway)?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What would you do if your girl cheated on you with another girl?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Joking aside, a woman cheating with a woman is still cheating.
When I used to ask my girl if she had been with anyone else since we started dating, it meant men and women.
Remember: a woman sleeping with another woman often means she slept with another woman and her boyfriend.
When I used to ask my girl if she had been with anyone else since we started dating, it meant men and women.
Remember: a woman sleeping with another woman often means she slept with another woman and her boyfriend.
Thorninmyside
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If exclusive, close to the same reaction as if it were a dude. It might not be a c*ck, but I have no interest in competing for time, attention or sex within my own relationship.
My girlfriend in 1998 said it best "A woman saying she is bisexual is just an excuse for her to be a ho. She'll f*ck you and she'll f*ck your sister".
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Milano
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In general I wouldnt care if my woman wanted to eat some dykes pssy, but what I do wonder about is if giving her that pass will make it easier tfor her to sleep with another man later. Perhaps its a door that must be closed. Also, those dykes she is eating might be getting creampied by other dudes with diseases so it can be nasty and backfire.
Initiatedindenial
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Focusing only on the topic raised, I wouldn't feel as burned, but if she is looking for sexual satisfaction elsewhere it is still a red flag for me.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
depends on a lot of factors:
if you had feelings for this girl, dump her and NC. it's just as much cheating as if she was fvcking a dude.
if she has feelings for the other girl, dump her and NC, you're going to get dumped/cucked if you stay, maybe try and get 3-way or her to let you watch before you go.
if your relationship with her was mostly sexual, and her relationship with the girl was mostly sexual, then tell her "congratulations, we're in an open relationship now!" or "congratulations, we're FWB now" and get her to do 3 and 4-ways, let you watch/record her bang other girls, etc.
my personal opinion on the subject is that her cheating on you with a girl is actually worse because you can't compete with a woman, you don't have a vag and tits, it means that she wanted something that you can never ever provide her and you have no ability to keep her from wanting it again because it's part of who she is.
however, you could also work it in your favor if she's open about her bisexuality before you guys get serious and have like, a half open relationship where you can both see other girls and sometimes do 3-ways and stuff.
if you had feelings for this girl, dump her and NC. it's just as much cheating as if she was fvcking a dude.
if she has feelings for the other girl, dump her and NC, you're going to get dumped/cucked if you stay, maybe try and get 3-way or her to let you watch before you go.
if your relationship with her was mostly sexual, and her relationship with the girl was mostly sexual, then tell her "congratulations, we're in an open relationship now!" or "congratulations, we're FWB now" and get her to do 3 and 4-ways, let you watch/record her bang other girls, etc.
my personal opinion on the subject is that her cheating on you with a girl is actually worse because you can't compete with a woman, you don't have a vag and tits, it means that she wanted something that you can never ever provide her and you have no ability to keep her from wanting it again because it's part of who she is.
however, you could also work it in your favor if she's open about her bisexuality before you guys get serious and have like, a half open relationship where you can both see other girls and sometimes do 3-ways and stuff.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Honestly, if a girl i was dating fvcked another girl...I'd question myself as a man.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.