ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
While she wasn't openly bisexual (at least maybe not before anyway)?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What would you do if your girl cheated on you with another girl?
- Thread starter ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Joking aside, a woman cheating with a woman is still cheating.
When I used to ask my girl if she had been with anyone else since we started dating, it meant men and women.
Remember: a woman sleeping with another woman often means she slept with another woman and her boyfriend.
When I used to ask my girl if she had been with anyone else since we started dating, it meant men and women.
Remember: a woman sleeping with another woman often means she slept with another woman and her boyfriend.
Thorninmyside
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If exclusive, close to the same reaction as if it were a dude. It might not be a c*ck, but I have no interest in competing for time, attention or sex within my own relationship.
My girlfriend in 1998 said it best "A woman saying she is bisexual is just an excuse for her to be a ho. She'll f*ck you and she'll f*ck your sister".
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Milano
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In general I wouldnt care if my woman wanted to eat some dykes pssy, but what I do wonder about is if giving her that pass will make it easier tfor her to sleep with another man later. Perhaps its a door that must be closed. Also, those dykes she is eating might be getting creampied by other dudes with diseases so it can be nasty and backfire.
Initiatedindenial
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Focusing only on the topic raised, I wouldn't feel as burned, but if she is looking for sexual satisfaction elsewhere it is still a red flag for me.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
depends on a lot of factors:
if you had feelings for this girl, dump her and NC. it's just as much cheating as if she was fvcking a dude.
if she has feelings for the other girl, dump her and NC, you're going to get dumped/cucked if you stay, maybe try and get 3-way or her to let you watch before you go.
if your relationship with her was mostly sexual, and her relationship with the girl was mostly sexual, then tell her "congratulations, we're in an open relationship now!" or "congratulations, we're FWB now" and get her to do 3 and 4-ways, let you watch/record her bang other girls, etc.
my personal opinion on the subject is that her cheating on you with a girl is actually worse because you can't compete with a woman, you don't have a vag and tits, it means that she wanted something that you can never ever provide her and you have no ability to keep her from wanting it again because it's part of who she is.
however, you could also work it in your favor if she's open about her bisexuality before you guys get serious and have like, a half open relationship where you can both see other girls and sometimes do 3-ways and stuff.
if you had feelings for this girl, dump her and NC. it's just as much cheating as if she was fvcking a dude.
if she has feelings for the other girl, dump her and NC, you're going to get dumped/cucked if you stay, maybe try and get 3-way or her to let you watch before you go.
if your relationship with her was mostly sexual, and her relationship with the girl was mostly sexual, then tell her "congratulations, we're in an open relationship now!" or "congratulations, we're FWB now" and get her to do 3 and 4-ways, let you watch/record her bang other girls, etc.
my personal opinion on the subject is that her cheating on you with a girl is actually worse because you can't compete with a woman, you don't have a vag and tits, it means that she wanted something that you can never ever provide her and you have no ability to keep her from wanting it again because it's part of who she is.
however, you could also work it in your favor if she's open about her bisexuality before you guys get serious and have like, a half open relationship where you can both see other girls and sometimes do 3-ways and stuff.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Honestly, if a girl i was dating fvcked another girl...I'd question myself as a man.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.