"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What would you do if your gf called you an afc?

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Because thats what happened to me a couple of months before her and I got together. She didn't call me that actually, she said that I didn't know how to talk to girls and that I should have asked my older sisters to teach me how. She then said that if I knew how to talk to girls I would be a pimp. It was kind of true, I still don't know how to talk to girls and before her I had only kissed one girl.

But then she became my first girlfriend. I wanted an open relationship at first so I could date as many girls as I could. She didn't want that type of relationship so we split for a few weeks and now were back together again. I want to tell her that her words lead me to want to prove her wrong and that it was partly her fault for our short break up. Should I or not?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Get over it.

I think you took what she said a little bit too much to heart. Take her words to mean that you have heaps going for you except experience.

Experience will come.
 

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ill laugh about it! and try to improve my self secretely..always treat your girl like a little girl..all your reactiopns if she doing nasty thing about should not be taken seriously..that would most alphas act around with woman.they dont see them as par or a princess but a baby little girl..imagine your self,what would you do if an 5year old girl would have fun at you laugh at you or calling you nasty names..would you get mad?of corz not!would you take it personaly?of corz not..now react to her like shes an kindergarden girl and you behaviours would automaticaly be hiiting the right moves..
 

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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 

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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 

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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 

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Alright, we get it.

I'd just be like, whatever, you're still horny for me. lol!
 
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