"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What would you do if your gf called you an afc?

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Because thats what happened to me a couple of months before her and I got together. She didn't call me that actually, she said that I didn't know how to talk to girls and that I should have asked my older sisters to teach me how. She then said that if I knew how to talk to girls I would be a pimp. It was kind of true, I still don't know how to talk to girls and before her I had only kissed one girl.

But then she became my first girlfriend. I wanted an open relationship at first so I could date as many girls as I could. She didn't want that type of relationship so we split for a few weeks and now were back together again. I want to tell her that her words lead me to want to prove her wrong and that it was partly her fault for our short break up. Should I or not?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jay Jay

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Get over it.

I think you took what she said a little bit too much to heart. Take her words to mean that you have heaps going for you except experience.

Experience will come.
 

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ill laugh about it! and try to improve my self secretely..always treat your girl like a little girl..all your reactiopns if she doing nasty thing about should not be taken seriously..that would most alphas act around with woman.they dont see them as par or a princess but a baby little girl..imagine your self,what would you do if an 5year old girl would have fun at you laugh at you or calling you nasty names..would you get mad?of corz not!would you take it personaly?of corz not..now react to her like shes an kindergarden girl and you behaviours would automaticaly be hiiting the right moves..
 

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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 

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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 

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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 

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Alright, we get it.

I'd just be like, whatever, you're still horny for me. lol!
 
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