"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What would you do if your gf called you an afc?

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Because thats what happened to me a couple of months before her and I got together. She didn't call me that actually, she said that I didn't know how to talk to girls and that I should have asked my older sisters to teach me how. She then said that if I knew how to talk to girls I would be a pimp. It was kind of true, I still don't know how to talk to girls and before her I had only kissed one girl.

But then she became my first girlfriend. I wanted an open relationship at first so I could date as many girls as I could. She didn't want that type of relationship so we split for a few weeks and now were back together again. I want to tell her that her words lead me to want to prove her wrong and that it was partly her fault for our short break up. Should I or not?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Get over it.

I think you took what she said a little bit too much to heart. Take her words to mean that you have heaps going for you except experience.

Experience will come.
 
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ill laugh about it! and try to improve my self secretely..always treat your girl like a little girl..all your reactiopns if she doing nasty thing about should not be taken seriously..that would most alphas act around with woman.they dont see them as par or a princess but a baby little girl..imagine your self,what would you do if an 5year old girl would have fun at you laugh at you or calling you nasty names..would you get mad?of corz not!would you take it personaly?of corz not..now react to her like shes an kindergarden girl and you behaviours would automaticaly be hiiting the right moves..
 
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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 
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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 
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i don't want to show her that I took her words to heart. I guess I just want to let her know that I'm not as afc as she thought I was. There were a couple other girls that I was talking to when I first started dating her, so I wasn't lacking in that. I just want her to know that she has competition.
 
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Alright, we get it.

I'd just be like, whatever, you're still horny for me. lol!
 
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