"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What would you do if your g/f said she was born a boy?

MatureDJ

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Reading this article got me thinking ... :eek: :eek: :eek:

www.huffingtonpost.com/janet-mock/transgender-coming-out_b_1146414.html

I'd like to think that I would be able to tell beforehand, but if this were to happen to me, I would feel like I've been swindled, with the only thing worse that a woman could do to man being having some other man's child while claiming (s)he is his. I'd also become even more hyper about trying to spot such trannies, and avoiding any woman that seemed to have a larger face structure, non-petite hands and wrists, and only go for women that obviously have a very hourglass figure that in no way could be the work of a surgeon. (NOTE: I do this to some extent as it is.)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AW1983

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MatureDJ said:
What would you do if your g/f said she was born a boy?
1. Punch it in the throat (right in the adam's apple)

2. Gargle gasoline for a week

I skimmed the article and thought it was pretty fvcked up that Pat waited a month to tell this poor sucker the truth. The time to come out with that is definitely pre-kissing etc.
 

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I'd like to think that I would be able to tell beforehand

That's what you'd be mad about - being tricked.

fwiw I hear that man-made vaginas can't get wet on their own. So if she does, no worries :up:
 

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my g/f thinks I am homophobic, but if it was a decision between living and dying and I had a choice, I'd rather sleep with the man (in that picture in that link) than sleeping with that thing.

Does that still make me homophobic?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Falcon punch to the faux-gina and dissappear from its life. I hope the flying spagetti monster never leads me in this direction. EVER.
 

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Five bucks says that Aaron (the ... boy) was once a woman, but due to the fact he/she/it has never had real balls, couldn't bring itself to confess back :crazy:

I have to believe (and hope I never have to put this to the test) is that I'd know the difference.

What would I do ... who knows, definitely hurl.

SH
 
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