"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What would you do if your g/f said she was born a boy?

MatureDJ

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Reading this article got me thinking ... :eek: :eek: :eek:

www.huffingtonpost.com/janet-mock/transgender-coming-out_b_1146414.html

I'd like to think that I would be able to tell beforehand, but if this were to happen to me, I would feel like I've been swindled, with the only thing worse that a woman could do to man being having some other man's child while claiming (s)he is his. I'd also become even more hyper about trying to spot such trannies, and avoiding any woman that seemed to have a larger face structure, non-petite hands and wrists, and only go for women that obviously have a very hourglass figure that in no way could be the work of a surgeon. (NOTE: I do this to some extent as it is.)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AW1983

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MatureDJ said:
What would you do if your g/f said she was born a boy?
1. Punch it in the throat (right in the adam's apple)

2. Gargle gasoline for a week

I skimmed the article and thought it was pretty fvcked up that Pat waited a month to tell this poor sucker the truth. The time to come out with that is definitely pre-kissing etc.
 

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I'd like to think that I would be able to tell beforehand

That's what you'd be mad about - being tricked.

fwiw I hear that man-made vaginas can't get wet on their own. So if she does, no worries :up:
 

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my g/f thinks I am homophobic, but if it was a decision between living and dying and I had a choice, I'd rather sleep with the man (in that picture in that link) than sleeping with that thing.

Does that still make me homophobic?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Falcon punch to the faux-gina and dissappear from its life. I hope the flying spagetti monster never leads me in this direction. EVER.
 

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Five bucks says that Aaron (the ... boy) was once a woman, but due to the fact he/she/it has never had real balls, couldn't bring itself to confess back :crazy:

I have to believe (and hope I never have to put this to the test) is that I'd know the difference.

What would I do ... who knows, definitely hurl.

SH
 
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