Ok heres my situation basically in a nutshell. I'm a 5th year college student with a bad rep in this college. Basically I have alot of haters who talk alot of **** about me. I don't really want to go into it since that's not really the main purpose of this thread. So pretty much for the most part trying to **** any girls on this campus is pretty much a no go. I mean I could try, but it's probably more trouble than its worth, since my social proof is shot to all hell. I used to have a sort of crew here that I chilled with, went to parties with whatever, but I started realizing these guys were the main source of all this bull****, and now we don't really chill that much. I'm not a virgin, and I've ****ed a couple different girls from when I used to still party and had connections, but I havent ****ed a chick for awhile now. I'm attractive enough to girls that I notice some checking me out frequently enough, and in the past girls have expressed interest in me. So the problem isn't really attracting girls, but getting into situations were I can **** some. So like the title says what would you do if you were me? Try for chicks in this school despite my rep (trust me its bad), try chicks in other schools? Cold approach random chicks when im out shopping/errands? Any other ideas?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What would you do if you were me?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DonGorgon
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Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
apusislaya
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What you really asking, is should I conform and become someone I am not, or be myself. 
Now, let me tell you, I'm 27, and I am a virgin. I ain't no AFC, but I am a virgin.
Now, brother. The question "what would you do if you were me" is a like "what do I need to do to fit in".....
Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..
Walk with the crowd and conform to things and you will attract the normal people..
Attract the regular people or fascinating people?
Question is what do you want?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gE5rHxymrVg
I had bad rep throughout high school and college. Made me a social retard. Conform to the system and be considered normal, go against it, and be unpopular.
Now, let me tell you, I'm 27, and I am a virgin. I ain't no AFC, but I am a virgin.
She thinks differently, left side of our brains is masculine, right side is feminine. She's using more of her right side than us. We are unable to understand them, because we think differently.DonGordon's signature said:
Now, brother. The question "what would you do if you were me" is a like "what do I need to do to fit in".....
Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..
Walk with the crowd and conform to things and you will attract the normal people..
Attract the regular people or fascinating people?
Question is what do you want?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gE5rHxymrVg
I had bad rep throughout high school and college. Made me a social retard. Conform to the system and be considered normal, go against it, and be unpopular.
everywomanshero
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I think, with all do respect, this bad rep excuse is the biggest pile of bull**** I've ever heard. Is this campus only 10 people large and isolated in a cornfield? People are probably far less interested in your life than you imagine, and you'd probably be surpised how many people have no clue who you are. Don't be so egocentric, people's lives probably don't involve thinking about you on a daily basis. No go out there, man up, and **** something. No excuses, make it happen.
Well my school is pretty small.. only 9,000 people. But I guess you're right. Besides what do I have to lose. Only thing I'm worried about is talking to some girl, then losing her if someone starts gossiping about me to her.everywomanshero said:
If you can attract girls easily because you are attractive, but don't want to sleep with girls at your school because of your bed rep, the try to sleep with girls outside of your school.DoleEater said:
I don't understand the whole preface to the question.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dannyrt34
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Only 9,000? Wow you are screwed.
STOP making excuses bud, you'll be fine. Just go out and fvck girls.
That's what I would do.
STOP making excuses bud, you'll be fine. Just go out and fvck girls.
That's what I would do.
Solomon
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Perfect10 said:
I c/s this
Either this guy got caught with his pants down in a male orgy, or he was on dateline nbc for being a pedophile
If its those two things then yeah, do yourself a favor and shoot yourself
PectoralisMajor
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RE:What would you do if you were me?
learn to use paragraphs as a priority, to allow others to read your posts without causing headaches.
look - this is a paragraph.
so is this
and here
yep you guessed it, another.
learn to use paragraphs as a priority, to allow others to read your posts without causing headaches.
look - this is a paragraph.
so is this
and here
yep you guessed it, another.
Metaphysical
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It doesn't matter what your reputation is like. Who cares?
Go to other places where people don't know you. I don't even like picking up girls around my zone because I don't want to run into them again once I am done with them.
Go to other places where people don't know you. I don't even like picking up girls around my zone because I don't want to run into them again once I am done with them.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I HOPE that was sarcastic... Otherwise what are you thinking man?DoleEater said:
You stupid?There are 500 in my school, and no one has your problem... Things are not the way you think!
Unless you WERE being sarcastic...
Prodigy746
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Whats the bad rep about??? You are a player? you use drugs? you have small penis ??? We prolly need to know that...
If my rep was so bad that i couldnt get girls in college i would prolly transfer to another one and start fresh. There are literally 1000's of colleges around the world.
If my rep was so bad that i couldnt get girls in college i would prolly transfer to another one and start fresh. There are literally 1000's of colleges around the world.