Ok heres my situation basically in a nutshell. I'm a 5th year college student with a bad rep in this college. Basically I have alot of haters who talk alot of **** about me. I don't really want to go into it since that's not really the main purpose of this thread. So pretty much for the most part trying to **** any girls on this campus is pretty much a no go. I mean I could try, but it's probably more trouble than its worth, since my social proof is shot to all hell. I used to have a sort of crew here that I chilled with, went to parties with whatever, but I started realizing these guys were the main source of all this bull****, and now we don't really chill that much. I'm not a virgin, and I've ****ed a couple different girls from when I used to still party and had connections, but I havent ****ed a chick for awhile now. I'm attractive enough to girls that I notice some checking me out frequently enough, and in the past girls have expressed interest in me. So the problem isn't really attracting girls, but getting into situations were I can **** some. So like the title says what would you do if you were me? Try for chicks in this school despite my rep (trust me its bad), try chicks in other schools? Cold approach random chicks when im out shopping/errands? Any other ideas?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What would you do if you were me?
- Thread starter DoleEater
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonGorgon
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Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
apusislaya
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What you really asking, is should I conform and become someone I am not, or be myself. 
Now, let me tell you, I'm 27, and I am a virgin. I ain't no AFC, but I am a virgin.
Now, brother. The question "what would you do if you were me" is a like "what do I need to do to fit in".....
Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..
Walk with the crowd and conform to things and you will attract the normal people..
Attract the regular people or fascinating people?
Question is what do you want?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gE5rHxymrVg
I had bad rep throughout high school and college. Made me a social retard. Conform to the system and be considered normal, go against it, and be unpopular.
Now, let me tell you, I'm 27, and I am a virgin. I ain't no AFC, but I am a virgin.
She thinks differently, left side of our brains is masculine, right side is feminine. She's using more of her right side than us. We are unable to understand them, because we think differently.DonGordon's signature said:
Now, brother. The question "what would you do if you were me" is a like "what do I need to do to fit in".....
Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..
Walk with the crowd and conform to things and you will attract the normal people..
Attract the regular people or fascinating people?
Question is what do you want?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gE5rHxymrVg
I had bad rep throughout high school and college. Made me a social retard. Conform to the system and be considered normal, go against it, and be unpopular.
everywomanshero
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I think, with all do respect, this bad rep excuse is the biggest pile of bull**** I've ever heard. Is this campus only 10 people large and isolated in a cornfield? People are probably far less interested in your life than you imagine, and you'd probably be surpised how many people have no clue who you are. Don't be so egocentric, people's lives probably don't involve thinking about you on a daily basis. No go out there, man up, and **** something. No excuses, make it happen.
Well my school is pretty small.. only 9,000 people. But I guess you're right. Besides what do I have to lose. Only thing I'm worried about is talking to some girl, then losing her if someone starts gossiping about me to her.everywomanshero said:
If you can attract girls easily because you are attractive, but don't want to sleep with girls at your school because of your bed rep, the try to sleep with girls outside of your school.DoleEater said:
I don't understand the whole preface to the question.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dannyrt34
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Only 9,000? Wow you are screwed.
STOP making excuses bud, you'll be fine. Just go out and fvck girls.
That's what I would do.
STOP making excuses bud, you'll be fine. Just go out and fvck girls.
That's what I would do.
Solomon
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Perfect10 said:
I c/s this
Either this guy got caught with his pants down in a male orgy, or he was on dateline nbc for being a pedophile
If its those two things then yeah, do yourself a favor and shoot yourself
PectoralisMajor
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RE:What would you do if you were me?
learn to use paragraphs as a priority, to allow others to read your posts without causing headaches.
look - this is a paragraph.
so is this
and here
yep you guessed it, another.
learn to use paragraphs as a priority, to allow others to read your posts without causing headaches.
look - this is a paragraph.
so is this
and here
yep you guessed it, another.
Metaphysical
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It doesn't matter what your reputation is like. Who cares?
Go to other places where people don't know you. I don't even like picking up girls around my zone because I don't want to run into them again once I am done with them.
Go to other places where people don't know you. I don't even like picking up girls around my zone because I don't want to run into them again once I am done with them.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I HOPE that was sarcastic... Otherwise what are you thinking man?DoleEater said:
You stupid?There are 500 in my school, and no one has your problem... Things are not the way you think!
Unless you WERE being sarcastic...
Prodigy746
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Whats the bad rep about??? You are a player? you use drugs? you have small penis ??? We prolly need to know that...
If my rep was so bad that i couldnt get girls in college i would prolly transfer to another one and start fresh. There are literally 1000's of colleges around the world.
If my rep was so bad that i couldnt get girls in college i would prolly transfer to another one and start fresh. There are literally 1000's of colleges around the world.