Ok heres my situation basically in a nutshell. I'm a 5th year college student with a bad rep in this college. Basically I have alot of haters who talk alot of **** about me. I don't really want to go into it since that's not really the main purpose of this thread. So pretty much for the most part trying to **** any girls on this campus is pretty much a no go. I mean I could try, but it's probably more trouble than its worth, since my social proof is shot to all hell. I used to have a sort of crew here that I chilled with, went to parties with whatever, but I started realizing these guys were the main source of all this bull****, and now we don't really chill that much. I'm not a virgin, and I've ****ed a couple different girls from when I used to still party and had connections, but I havent ****ed a chick for awhile now. I'm attractive enough to girls that I notice some checking me out frequently enough, and in the past girls have expressed interest in me. So the problem isn't really attracting girls, but getting into situations were I can **** some. So like the title says what would you do if you were me? Try for chicks in this school despite my rep (trust me its bad), try chicks in other schools? Cold approach random chicks when im out shopping/errands? Any other ideas?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What would you do if you were me?
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Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
apusislaya
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What you really asking, is should I conform and become someone I am not, or be myself. 
Now, let me tell you, I'm 27, and I am a virgin. I ain't no AFC, but I am a virgin.
Now, brother. The question "what would you do if you were me" is a like "what do I need to do to fit in".....
Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..
Walk with the crowd and conform to things and you will attract the normal people..
Attract the regular people or fascinating people?
Question is what do you want?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gE5rHxymrVg
I had bad rep throughout high school and college. Made me a social retard. Conform to the system and be considered normal, go against it, and be unpopular.
Now, let me tell you, I'm 27, and I am a virgin. I ain't no AFC, but I am a virgin.
She thinks differently, left side of our brains is masculine, right side is feminine. She's using more of her right side than us. We are unable to understand them, because we think differently.DonGordon's signature said:
Now, brother. The question "what would you do if you were me" is a like "what do I need to do to fit in".....
Walk alone and strong and you will attract the independent thinkers..
Walk with the crowd and conform to things and you will attract the normal people..
Attract the regular people or fascinating people?
Question is what do you want?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gE5rHxymrVg
I had bad rep throughout high school and college. Made me a social retard. Conform to the system and be considered normal, go against it, and be unpopular.
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I think, with all do respect, this bad rep excuse is the biggest pile of bull**** I've ever heard. Is this campus only 10 people large and isolated in a cornfield? People are probably far less interested in your life than you imagine, and you'd probably be surpised how many people have no clue who you are. Don't be so egocentric, people's lives probably don't involve thinking about you on a daily basis. No go out there, man up, and **** something. No excuses, make it happen.
Well my school is pretty small.. only 9,000 people. But I guess you're right. Besides what do I have to lose. Only thing I'm worried about is talking to some girl, then losing her if someone starts gossiping about me to her.everywomanshero said:
If you can attract girls easily because you are attractive, but don't want to sleep with girls at your school because of your bed rep, the try to sleep with girls outside of your school.DoleEater said:
I don't understand the whole preface to the question.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Only 9,000? Wow you are screwed.
STOP making excuses bud, you'll be fine. Just go out and fvck girls.
That's what I would do.
STOP making excuses bud, you'll be fine. Just go out and fvck girls.
That's what I would do.
Solomon
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Perfect10 said:
I c/s this
Either this guy got caught with his pants down in a male orgy, or he was on dateline nbc for being a pedophile
If its those two things then yeah, do yourself a favor and shoot yourself
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RE:What would you do if you were me?
learn to use paragraphs as a priority, to allow others to read your posts without causing headaches.
look - this is a paragraph.
so is this
and here
yep you guessed it, another.
learn to use paragraphs as a priority, to allow others to read your posts without causing headaches.
look - this is a paragraph.
so is this
and here
yep you guessed it, another.
Metaphysical
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It doesn't matter what your reputation is like. Who cares?
Go to other places where people don't know you. I don't even like picking up girls around my zone because I don't want to run into them again once I am done with them.
Go to other places where people don't know you. I don't even like picking up girls around my zone because I don't want to run into them again once I am done with them.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I HOPE that was sarcastic... Otherwise what are you thinking man?DoleEater said:
You stupid?There are 500 in my school, and no one has your problem... Things are not the way you think!
Unless you WERE being sarcastic...
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Whats the bad rep about??? You are a player? you use drugs? you have small penis ??? We prolly need to know that...
If my rep was so bad that i couldnt get girls in college i would prolly transfer to another one and start fresh. There are literally 1000's of colleges around the world.
If my rep was so bad that i couldnt get girls in college i would prolly transfer to another one and start fresh. There are literally 1000's of colleges around the world.