"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What would you do if you had to flee the country?

dietzcoi

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Germany has had a draft since 1956, their Armed Forces are called the Bundeswehr.

Interestingly it is the left-leaning parties who favor the continuation of the draft. They are afraid of what a professional Army will do, as in 1939.

The draft is winding down, they take fewer and fewer men and the length of service is down from 18 months to 10 months, I beleive. Hardly worth the effort and expense.

Dietzcoi
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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I don't have to think about what I would do. I have already done it. Escaped a civil war.
 

DrMetallica

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Originally posted by Snatchmaster
How about stand tall, be a man, and do your duty?

Seems to be a shortage of that these days. Take responsibility for yourself and repay your debt to society.
I always stand tall, am a man, and always do my duty. I always take responsiblity for myself and my actions. That's exactly the point. I have nothing to do in the army or any foreign war, and so of course I regret registering for the Selective Service. I'm especially disgusted at the lack of ties to Al Queda, and there were no "weapons of mass destruction", the entire premise for this war with Iraq. So I want a back up plan if there is a draft.

Plus my family has convinced me to avoid the army. That said, if our freedoms were threatened, I would gladly fight the enemy... but the only entity thusfar who is restricting our freedoms is the government.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Join the French Foreign Legion :D

At 60K euros per year its worth it. If you're lucky you could end up in Corsica and sit around staring at the hairy Corsican girls...
 

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Originally posted by DrMetallica
I always stand tall, am a man, and always do my duty. I always take responsiblity for myself and my actions. That's exactly the point. I have nothing to do in the army or any foreign war, and so of course I regret registering for the Selective Service. I'm especially disgusted at the lack of ties to Al Queda, and there were no "weapons of mass destruction", the entire premise for this war with Iraq. So I want a back up plan if there is a draft.

Plus my family has convinced me to avoid the army. That said, if our freedoms were threatened, I would gladly fight the enemy... but the only entity thusfar who is restricting our freedoms is the government.
A) There will be no draft.

b) The primary reason we went to war with Iraq is because they flaunted UN resolutions for the past 13 years.
Read the acutal war resolution voted on by Congress.

C) Whether or not Iraq had WMD's has yet to be determined either way.

D) Iraq did indeed have ties to Al-Qaueda, as evidenced in page 66 of the 9-11 Comission report.

E) Name one freeedom that our Government has threatened.
 
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