What would you do if an old crush asked you to fund her vacation?

[Courageous]

So I used to live in another country, and back then I met this girl really cute but she had a boyfriend at the time. I tried to shoot my shot, but she wasn't interested. At one point she even straight up told me that if I wanted to sleep with her, I'd have to give her €5000. Anyway I ended up moving away.

Now and then she still texts me, usually asking for something, but I always just leave her on read or take forever to respond without actually giving her anything. Now she just hit me up saying she's coming to my new country for a concert, and she wants me to pay for everything flight, hotel, concert ticket, food for three nights. The hotel alone is over €1000.

I really don't wanna end up in a situation where I drop all that cash and then I'm basically begging her for sex. What do you guys think I should do?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Mode 1 on her azz. Tell her some chick wants to take you on a weekend getaway that weekend, her treat. Ask your old crush what's in it for you for you to cancel.

 

[RoadKing_Rabbit]

NO! Read the DJ bible and archives. Attempt to scratch the surface and try testing yourself against what you've read. Unless you consider € 1-5000 as a commoner considers a hay penny, never drop that kind of cash on a lady. If you end up in a situation like that AFTER asking advice here, that's your doing.

I'm not trying to be a jerk, but it's either raw truth from people who care or its you coming face to face with it. She's naught but a drop in the bucket from women you'll meet later if you apply yourself and realize you are better.

 

[Prepostereax]

Lol is this even a question?

This woman is a hoe, or more accurately, a sugar-baby-wannabe.
Except you can hire a professional hoe for a fraction of the price.

Leave her on read.
Don't dignify her request with an answer of any sort.

It doesn't matter if a few thousand is chump change to you.
(if it is, you might as well book an escort.)

What she's asking/expecting is simply not respectful.
She's not even coming to see YOU.
She just wants someone to fund her holiday.

If you're really into her, and you have a playful vibe with her, tell her she can stay for free at your place.
She'll have to sort out her own travel arrangements.
Don't mention food / tickets, these things are negotiable - if you are the host, it's usually customary that you'll also have meals sorted. Maybe she can purchase tickets in return.

(is the concert something you're even into?
If so, then contact any local female you know, if she's interested in attending. Then send selfies back to this biatch after the event)

Seriously, most folk here are gonna speak the obvious: you are doing yourself a disservice by maintaining contact.
If you want some other answer, go to a sugar-daddy site.

Should you drop cash on her hotel, here's how it will go down:
She'll pity-fck you one night, maybe.. provided you coughed up for everything else she demanded
The rest of the weekend, she'll be bringing back people she met at the rave to her hotel room for threesomes & foursomes, whilst high on party drugs
And no, you won't be included

 

[BillyPilgrim]

OP are you a female, bot, troll or what? Nice post history you have there.

 

[BaronOfHair]

@Courageous "Now she just hit me up saying she's coming to my new country for a concert, and she wants me to pay for everything flight, hotel, concert ticket, food for three nights. The hotel alone is over €1000"

Go ahead and give into her... Every man needs to get taken to the cleaners by a woman, a sleazy buisness partner, and the government, at least once in his life. Like clogging the crapper irreperably, after washing down Enchiliads Verdes with Jack Daniels and A&W, these are rites of passage

 

[BackInTheGame78]

How is this even a question?

 

[MatureDJ]

So I used to live in another country, and back then I met this girl really cute but she had a boyfriend at the time. I tried to shoot my shot, but she wasn't interested. At one point she even straight up told me that if I wanted to sleep with her, I'd have to give her €5000. Anyway I ended up moving away.

Now and then she still texts me, usually asking for something, but I always just leave her on read or take forever to respond without actually giving her anything. Now she just hit me up saying she's coming to my new country for a concert, and she wants me to pay for everything flight, hotel, concert ticket, food for three nights. The hotel alone is over €1000.

I really don't wanna end up in a situation where I drop all that cash and then I'm basically begging her for sex. What do you guys think I should do?

The solipsism is off the charts. Tell her that you'll pay her at 100 EUR for a double-cvm party, and she could earn it over time.

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady.....this must be a troll, seriously.....

Um.

HELL NO.

Send her the following text:

My you are an entitled little bytch aren't you? For that outlay of money I can get a hooker for a week who is better looking and better at sex than you. So go pimp yourself out to some other sucker sweetheart. At this point you are simply free entertainment as far as I'm concerned, lol.

Send her that exact text.

Make popcorn and tell us what she says. We'll wait.

 

[The Duke]

Send her fictitious reservations! Wait til she gets to the airport and realizes her boarding pass is fake! lol, she will blow your phone up.

 

[Clockwerk50]

This thread is basically identical to what you’re experiencing, so the advice given to that OP will most likely apply to your situation as well.

Girl flying into town - pay for hotel? | SoSuave Discussion Forum

 

[Bokanovsky]

So I used to live in another country, and back then I met this girl really cute but she had a boyfriend at the time. I tried to shoot my shot, but she wasn't interested. At one point she even straight up told me that if I wanted to sleep with her, I'd have to give her €5000. Anyway I ended up moving away.

Now and then she still texts me, usually asking for something, but I always just leave her on read or take forever to respond without actually giving her anything. Now she just hit me up saying she's coming to my new country for a concert, and she wants me to pay for everything flight, hotel, concert ticket, food for three nights. The hotel alone is over €1000.

I really don't wanna end up in a situation where I drop all that cash and then I'm basically begging her for sex. What do you guys think I should do?

I would agree enthusiastically, let her plan everything, and then back out at the last minute citing "unforeseen circumstances". The b!tch needs to be taught a lesson.

 

[Sega Genesis]

Lol you guys are funny.

Now and then she still texts me, usually asking for something, but I always just leave her on read...

And this^^ is what you should do again. She most likely sent same message to godonlyknows how many other men to see which one is simp enough to comply.

Ignore. Block. Delete. Get on with your life and stop wasting energy even thinking of a clever retort, let alone sending. She wont care and may even chuckle at the attention.

Negative attention is still attention.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Lol you guys are funny.



And this^^ is what you should do again. She most likely sent same message to godonlyknows how many other men to see which one is simp enough to comply.

Ignore. Block. Delete. Get on with your life and stop wasting energy even thinking of a clever retort, let alone sending. She wont care and may even chuckle at the attention.

Negative attention is still attention.

Sage advice. Everyone, let's ignore the OP.

 

[sevbucmash]

So I used to live in another country, and back then I met this girl really cute but she had a boyfriend at the time. I tried to shoot my shot, but she wasn't interested. At one point she even straight up told me that if I wanted to sleep with her, I'd have to give her €5000. Anyway I ended up moving away.

Now and then she still texts me, usually asking for something, but I always just leave her on read or take forever to respond without actually giving her anything. Now she just hit me up saying she's coming to my new country for a concert, and she wants me to pay for everything flight, hotel, concert ticket, food for three nights. The hotel alone is over €1000.

I really don't wanna end up in a situation where I drop all that cash and then I'm basically begging her for sex. What do you guys think I should do?

Are we talking Ukrainian refugees? Perhaps other countries there? Like Slovakia, Romania, etc... If so, if you can picture Ukraine, city of Kharkov, that's right next to Russia, bus is going straight to Warsaw. She can board a bus and come over. From warsaw, flexibus anywhere in Europe about $30 or so.

It costs $50 or so. She can afford it. Tell her that you'll meet up and you'll see where it will go from there.

Back circa pre-2014 all these women from Ukraine were coming to Russia to prostitute. 1 hour was 3000, or $100. So that's what I think you are dealing with, old prostitute.

Sex costs about $100 per hour. She's coming over to fk, I think. If sugar daddy can take her out on a concert and pay for her room where she can make money, that's a plus. So unless you lead her on and make her believe that you will pay for things, she won't do anything with you.

Expect her to be moody and **** with you, cure is spending money on her. She'll be moody and won't fk unless you spend money on her.

Have fun.