"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What would you consider SHORT?

Toast123

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I know it varies from country to country but in the civilised world of the US and the UK what would you consider short, average, tall?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Purefilth

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Anyone who's eye level is below mine is short anyone with eye level above mine is tall. (I'm 6'4")
 

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Kerpal said:
+1

I'm 5'11 and feel like a midget a lot of the time. I'm starting to wonder if a lot of guys are wearing shoe lifts.
Kids are tall these days... it ain't no thang for young guys to be 6'6, but for most guys, 6'2 is still considered pretty tall, and 5'11 is quite average. (I said 5'10 was average in my previous post, but a 5'11 dude in the morning would be 5'10 at night...)

I go to the website celebheights.com quite a lot. Its got nice discussions on famous dudes' heights.

For an indication of how 5'11 is an average height, celebheights lists Brad Pitt at 5'11, Michael Fassbender 5'11, Orlando Bloom (who's wifey is smokin hawt) at 5'10.5, and Matt Damon at 5'10 flat.
 

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I'm 5'11''. I consider myself to be average. There are a lot of guys taller than me, but I see most guys how are about my height and shorter. I would consider tall to be 6'1'' and up

Of course, women may exaggerate it a bit, (especially since women are getting much taller these days too), but even if you are 5'8'', you are still taller than most women.
If a woman is hung up on your height, then forget her
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JohnnyStorm

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5ft 9 is apparently average height for the UK across all male age ranges.
I find I'm probably on the short side of average among males my age, but it's nothing to worry about.

Floyd Mayweather is like 5ft 7, do you think he walks around feeling sorry for himself?
 

Who Dares Win

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It doesnt matter only the height as number but also how you are perceived.

Muscular guys usually seems taller since they "fill" space, while I noticed that many guys that were taller than me actually looked my height or short if not close to compare.
Also personality plays a role, dominant man looks taller even if they are not.

And dont forget your body posture as well, most of men could get a inch only by filling their lungs and walk straight.

Regarding your question I agree with d1ckmojo, just considering slight difference between countries actually, tall in spain is average in holland.
 

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I'm 5'5" and I consider myself short, but I also do not care. My height has been an advantage to me so much that I wouldn't change it if I could.

The bottom line is that women only care about your height if you care. They seem to be content if you're taller than them. I'm sure some taller women have shot me down because I'm short, but I've also hooked up with girls a couple inches taller.

I consider like 5'10"ish pretty normal.
 

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You guys are delusional. 5'10, 5'11 "average"??? "short"??? Maybe in the NBA.

5'9 is average. Anything over is considered tall. Anything under is considered short.

5'10 is two inches away from being 6 feet. Hardly short, or average.
 

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Anything less than 6 inches.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There's a lot of short UFC fighters. In striking, being short is actually a big advantage if the shorter fighter can stay in close enough range. And in jiu-jitsu, taller people have longer arms and legs, which make for better levers to crank the wrong direction, as well as skinny necks, which are much easier to choke.

Even at an amateur level, maybe it's because of the weight classes, there are more short fighters than tall. Wrestling is the same way, especially at collegiate levels. You don't see many tall guys. But at the same time, from what I've seen at least, most of them seem to do fine with women.
 
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