Imagine this situation: you just gone no contact to teach a girl a lesson for she has acted in a way you dont like. Then when you are back she asks you why you didnt answer and insists on an answer. What is the proper way to handle this?
Can one say that "you acted in a way I didnt like so I didnt feel like it" or will this only make things worse?
You didn't stay no contact long enough. She knows exactly why you went no contact and the fact that she is insisting on an answer tells me she wants to pick a fight because your no contact didn't punish her bad behaviour. Aka it wasn't long enough. She didn't feel a sense of loss.
Normally when you no contact a chick it is for good and she cant ask because you thew her out with the trash but if you use it for punishment going NC for a day or 2 will only teach her to be a nag when you do talk to her again.
I have never had a girl ask " why i didn't answer" because they know why. They know i don't put up with bullschitt and if they try to dish out bullschitt they are history.
The fact she is asking and insisting on an answer tells YOU she isn't threatened by your boundaries or she doesn't care.