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Imagine this situation: you just gone no contact to teach a girl a lesson for she has acted in a way you dont like. Then when you are back she asks you why you didnt answer and insists on an answer. What is the proper way to handle this?

Can one say that "you acted in a way I didnt like so I didnt feel like it" or will this only make things worse?
 

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I'd make something up or say you were busy/forgot. Remember that covert communication with women is always more effective than overt.
 

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I tried "teaching a girl a lesson" once by not meeting up with her after we had agreed to. She had insulted me and I told her so.

She was fvcking furious and chewed me out. We never met.
 

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Imagine this situation: you just gone no contact to teach a girl a lesson for she has acted in a way you dont like. Then when you are back she asks you why you didnt answer and insists on an answer. What is the proper way to handle this?

Can one say that "you acted in a way I didnt like so I didnt feel like it" or will this only make things worse?
Need more information. What are you teaching her a lesson over? Something minor or major?
 

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Imagine this situation: you just gone no contact to teach a girl a lesson for she has acted in a way you dont like. Then when you are back she asks you why you didnt answer and insists on an answer. What is the proper way to handle this?

Can one say that "you acted in a way I didnt like so I didnt feel like it" or will this only make things worse?
"I was busy and needed a break"
 

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WHAT?!?!?

Tell her that life doesn't have a pause button.
There is no to be continued........

If she's holding onto a grudge that long, tell her sayonara
 

Scars

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"Sorry, after our last conversation I realized that things probably weren't gonna work out with us.."

I think that gets the message across. No need to elaborate on anything.
 

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"life happens"

wtf, you are a man and got sh1t to do
 

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Imagine this situation: you just gone no contact to teach a girl a lesson for she has acted in a way you dont like. Then when you are back she asks you why you didnt answer and insists on an answer. What is the proper way to handle this?

Can one say that "you acted in a way I didnt like so I didnt feel like it" or will this only make things worse?
You didn't stay no contact long enough. She knows exactly why you went no contact and the fact that she is insisting on an answer tells me she wants to pick a fight because your no contact didn't punish her bad behaviour. Aka it wasn't long enough. She didn't feel a sense of loss.

Normally when you no contact a chick it is for good and she cant ask because you thew her out with the trash but if you use it for punishment going NC for a day or 2 will only teach her to be a nag when you do talk to her again.

I have never had a girl ask " why i didn't answer" because they know why. They know i don't put up with bullschitt and if they try to dish out bullschitt they are history.

The fact she is asking and insisting on an answer tells YOU she isn't threatened by your boundaries or she doesn't care.
 

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Imagine this situation: you just gone no contact to teach a girl a lesson for she has acted in a way you dont like. Then when you are back she asks you why you didnt answer and insists on an answer. What is the proper way to handle this?

Can one say that "you acted in a way I didnt like so I didnt feel like it" or will this only make things worse?
This is why you dont go back. She comes to you or you let it go.
Causes this type of confusion for her. She wants to follow, not speculate.
There is no good way to play this. If she is asking "why?" Then the guy wasn't clear from the start.
Got to wait them out, move on.
 

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You didn't stay no contact long enough. She knows exactly why you went no contact and the fact that she is insisting on an answer tells me she wants to pick a fight because your no contact didn't punish her bad behaviour. Aka it wasn't long enough. She didn't feel a sense of loss.

Normally when you no contact a chick it is for good and she cant ask because you thew her out with the trash but if you use it for punishment going NC for a day or 2 will only teach her to be a nag when you do talk to her again.

I have never had a girl ask " why i didn't answer" because they know why. They know i don't put up with bullschitt and if they try to dish out bullschitt they are history.

The fact she is asking and insisting on an answer tells YOU she isn't threatened by your boundaries or she doesn't care.
Dude nails it.
 
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