"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What would be your advice for this frustrated man?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Infern0
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Thought manifests reality, guy cries like b!tch for 20+ minutes. Reading the comment section, it seems there are actually people that follow this fagg.
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It is easy to be negative when the truth is harsh. It is hard to be positive in a world full of negative truths.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Listen to the video again and note, where he has invested all his hope, faith and energy. Making more money, more clothes, a better physique, nicer cars, apartments and houses. Not once does he mention nurturing his mind or his spirit, even when the former has failed. He just continues to draw blanks. The chickens have finally came home to roost, hence his video. I do feel bad for the guy, because he's been misled. The truly sad part is that it also seems he is leading others down the same path of peril. The blind leading the blind.