"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What would be your advice for this frustrated man?
- Thread starter MatureDJ
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Infern0
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 11, 2015
- Messages
- 1,637
- Reaction score
- 1,462
Macaframalama
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 14, 2017
- Messages
- 1,084
- Reaction score
- 697
- Age
- 48
Thought manifests reality, guy cries like b!tch for 20+ minutes. Reading the comment section, it seems there are actually people that follow this fagg.
JohnChops
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 9, 2012
- Messages
- 2,734
- Reaction score
- 481
It is easy to be negative when the truth is harsh. It is hard to be positive in a world full of negative truths.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
corrector
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 12, 2009
- Messages
- 10,394
- Reaction score
- 4,061
Macaframalama
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 14, 2017
- Messages
- 1,084
- Reaction score
- 697
- Age
- 48
Listen to the video again and note, where he has invested all his hope, faith and energy. Making more money, more clothes, a better physique, nicer cars, apartments and houses. Not once does he mention nurturing his mind or his spirit, even when the former has failed. He just continues to draw blanks. The chickens have finally came home to roost, hence his video. I do feel bad for the guy, because he's been misled. The truly sad part is that it also seems he is leading others down the same path of peril. The blind leading the blind.