"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What would be your advice for this frustrated man?
- Thread starter MatureDJ
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Thought manifests reality, guy cries like b!tch for 20+ minutes. Reading the comment section, it seems there are actually people that follow this fagg.
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It is easy to be negative when the truth is harsh. It is hard to be positive in a world full of negative truths.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Listen to the video again and note, where he has invested all his hope, faith and energy. Making more money, more clothes, a better physique, nicer cars, apartments and houses. Not once does he mention nurturing his mind or his spirit, even when the former has failed. He just continues to draw blanks. The chickens have finally came home to roost, hence his video. I do feel bad for the guy, because he's been misled. The truly sad part is that it also seems he is leading others down the same path of peril. The blind leading the blind.