What Women Really Want

[The Duke]

This psychologist has some great insight regarding many of the same topics we discuss here.

-Why are women more unhappy than ever before when they have more choice than ever?

-Is there a swing towards masculinity being positive again?

-He shares his thoughts about alpha males, beta males, and females related to a game that was played on Survivor(at 4:01 in video). Basically it was a game of male vs. female. At some point it became obvious the women would lose. So the women did what women do and cornered the lower status beta males and played on their emotions and played on their fears/insecurities. The beta males fell for it and turned against the alpha males and voted them out. The women then rallied against the beta's and won the game. Women are in direct competition with men these days and using the weak males as soldiers and cry fowl when strong men act like strong men.

-What do women want...they want what other women want. They all follow trends. Men, not so much. Just look at fashion. Social Media is the stage where they all convene.

-Why do men work far harder to understand women, than women do to understand men?

-Why are women so anxious? Because they compare themselves to what other women are doing. Its impossible to be everything to everyone. Men get this, women struggle with it. Its about the Fear of Missing Out.

 

[CornbreadFed]

The guy that provides the most fun emotional excitement to a woman will always win. Next, I will say it is status/money. Women like bad boys because they aren't boring and will always have them go through a tingle roller coaster ride. Rich & High-Status guys can artificially provide fun & excitement, but they cannot organically produce then they will lose to men who can provide that organic fun & excitement. This is why women want men who are like Travis Kelce, Travis Barker, or a Weekend Warrior Tupac with a degree hybrid because they are a combination of fun, safety, and economic stability.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Forgot about that on survivor. Fckin broads man. So I guess being called intimidating is a badge of honor. I’ll take it.

 

[Travel memoir21]

The guy that provides the most fun emotional excitement to a woman will always win. Next, I will say it is status/money. Women like bad boys because they aren't boring and will always have them go through a tingle roller coaster ride. Rich & High-Status guys can artificially provide fun & excitement, but they cannot organically produce then they will lose to men who can provide that organic fun & excitement. This is why women want men who are like Travis Kelce, Travis Barker, or a Weekend Warrior Tupac with a degree hybrid because they are a combination of fun, safety, and economic stability.

All those things are great, but it has to come from a position where you're not trying to get her approval. It has to come from you and from within and what you want to do or she will see it and get turned off.

 

[Gamisch]

That guy...

Isn't it more about what H0ES really want? Because I see the most normie dudes with 6+ women all day long. I don't believe these norming bluepill -by - nature- guys are constantly providing an emotional roller-coaster, rather quite the opposite: they offer predictability and stability.

Seems like if we take 100 women, the number we talk about is like 30 . 50 of those women are occupied, 20 are...somewhere I geuss? Perhaps lesbos? The 30 that are left want that badboys Tupac with degrees yadiya. So 50 men want those 30 women.

So if we put some zeros behind it you could say 5000000 men fight for 3000000 women. On top of that those women chase the same type( tupac with degree) leaving perhaps 4 million men left out completely. Yes, a staggering number .

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I knew it was the Armenian!

 

[BillyPilgrim]

There are 3 levels to this

1) What other women want
2) What other women have
3) Everything

 

[BeExcellent]

It is very simple.

Women at the end of the day want a REAL man. Not a lazy little biatch, not a whiner, not a guy who is afraid of his shadow or unsure of himself.

Women want to be desired by such a man and have their desire ignited by his manliness (not kidding).

A solid man who has a direction in life so she can tag along on his big adventure.

What that looks like will vary widely based on individuals and what those individuals value....but if women are raw & honest? That's the core of it.

 

[Bokanovsky]

It is very simple.

Women at the end of the day want a REAL man. Not a lazy little biatch, not a whiner, not a guy who is afraid of his shadow or unsure of himself.

Women want to be desired by such a man and have their desire ignited by his manliness (not kidding).

A solid man who has a direction in life so she can tag along on his big adventure.

What that looks like will vary widely based on individuals and what those individuals value....but if women are raw & honest? That's the core of it.

And yet, women will take a lazy little biatch who happens to be physically attractive and superficially "fun" over an unattractive and/or boring REAL man any day of the week.

You mention your husband frequently in your posts. And every single time you go out of your way to emphasize how other women want him or find him attractive. And that is the "raw & honest" core of it. Your husband could be the biggest piece of sh!t in the world (not saying that he is) but you would still pick him over some plain "good guy" who is invisible to other women.

 

[BeExcellent]

And yet, women will take a lazy little biatch who happens to be physically attractive and superficially "fun" over an unattractive and/or boring REAL man any day of the week.

You mention your husband frequently in your posts. And every single time you go out of your way to emphasize how other women want him or find him attractive. And that is the "raw & honest" core of it. Your husband could be the biggest piece of sh!t in the world (not saying that he is) but you would still pick him over some plain "good guy" who is invisible to other women.

Nah. I've always gone out with hot men. If they lack brains, personality, ambition and a masculine nature?

I'll drop them regardless of how they look. I dumped a male model who was better looking than my husband because he terribly nuerotic. Many models are, but yeah. That dude had women after him all the time too.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Nah. I've always gone out with hot men. If they lack brains, personality, ambition and a masculine nature?

I'll drop them regardless of how they look. I dumped a male model who was better looking than my husband because he terribly nuerotic. Many models are, but yeah. That dude had women after him all the time too.

Thanks for proving my point.

 

[BeExcellent]

Actually you proved mine. I dropped the male model (who sought me out) in favor of my first husband. I dated him only long enough to screen him (the model) and he didn't pass my screening....so no. You sir are incorrect, lol.

I'm on the ball and beautiful. Always have been. So someone good looking is a given. I select on criteria other than looks.

Looks only get you so far.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Actually you proved mine. I dropped the male model (who sought me out) in favor of my first husband. I dated him only long enough to screen him (the model) and he didn't pass my screening....so no. You sir are incorrect, lol.

I thought you said this guy wasn’t going to commit?

 

[Bokanovsky]

Actually you proved mine. I dropped the male model (who sought me out) in favor of my first husband. I dated him only long enough to screen him (the model) and he didn't pass my screening....so no. You sir are incorrect, lol.

To "drop" someone you first have to date him. You dated that guy even though, by your own admission, most male model are "neurotic", whatever that means. So you started dating a guy who you knew was not relationship material. You really should watch the video posted by The Duke. You are like Exhibit "A" to that video.

As to you "dropping" the male model, we haven't heard his side of the story. I'm not entirely prepared to accept your version of events at face value.

 

[BadBoy89]

It is very simple.

Women at the end of the day want a REAL man. Not a lazy little biatch, not a whiner, not a guy who is afraid of his shadow or unsure of himself.

Women want to be desired by such a man and have their desire ignited by his manliness (not kidding).

Bonkansky’s correct.

If that “real man“ isn’t coveted by any other women, women won’t care.

He has to be desired by other women, more specifically, other hot women, It doesnt matter the reasoning why they like him, they just have to.

You are using logic on an emotional issue.

 

[BaronOfHair]

The occasional Timothy Chalamet gives entirely too many men the false impression that going metrosexual is the way to go

 

[DJ Novice]

Most women will bleed a man dry of his money, independence, energy, emotions and time. They tend to be net takers, not net givers and will never be satisfied with what you give them. They are always focused on what they don’t already have. Over time you will just become a plow horse to her needs and if you fail to meet them you will be put to pasture or put down.

If you look rationally at the price men pay for p*ssy it is rarely justified.

A plate I am seeing actually told me she is ‘expensive’ to date. And she wasn’t joking.

 

[CoolWave1331]

As others have said : they want a guy who other women want - this is the short answer.

What kind of guy is that: A guy they perceive to be handsome, cool, successful or has the capability to be successful (all facets of life)

You don't have to try hard if you appear to be one of these guys. Women make fools of themselves ove r these perceived "select" guys, much in the same way simps do for any woman who "might" appear interested

 

[Barrister]

Most women don't even know what women want. They will tell what they want which usually is pure nonsense ("I want someone who treats me the right way"). In reality, they just want a high-value man that is desired by many other women as others have said.

I have found that the more women you get in your orbit the easier it is to add more. This demonstrates this concept to a "T" as the more women that see you with other women the more they think you are desirable and follow suit. It is definitely a herd mentality they share when it comes to wanting a man. Probably biological and left over from cave-man days when the chief led the tribe and all the women wanted him. At the end of the day, we can't change how we are wired (men wanting sex; women wanting men who all other women want).

 

[BaronOfHair]

Most women don't even know what women want

They're part of the human race, in other words: A species which has the capacity for introspection, yet rarely exercises it. In a similar fashion, most folks SAY they want honesty out of our leaders, yet in practice become angry if they stop telling us what we want to hear. No one wins office by admitting:

"The factories aren't coming back, and we'll never rid our police departments of corruption entirely"