What we can learn from Depp v. Heard.

[zekko]

I just want to say that just because things turned out well for Depp in his case, doesn't mean it's going to turn out well for you. We're not all Johnny Depp, and he can turn on the charm, is a skilled actor, a celebrity well liked by females, he got good press coverage of the trial, etc. You would most likely be seen as just another toxic male.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If you argue and fight on a constant basis there is NO REASON to be in a relationship with that person. It's TOXIC. Get out.

If you think this is what a relationship should be like or find yourself in these type of relationships regularly or think they are normal, they are not. Get help to determine why you are drawn to these type of relationships and what's missing in your life that makes you crave this.

I agree with this

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I just want to say that just because things turned out well for Depp in his case, doesn't mean it's going to turn out well for you. We're not all Johnny Depp, and he can turn on the charm, is a skilled actor, a celebrity well liked by females, he got good press coverage of the trial, etc. You would most likely be seen as just another toxic male.

We can't afford to get into those positions, neither could he.

 

[Billtx49]

We can't afford to get into those positions, neither could he.

Bingo, it’s hard for a man to be loving and passionate after a woman takes a dump on his side of the bed…

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Bingo, it’s hard for a man to be loving and passionate after a woman takes a dump on his side of the bed…

He tried to fight thru it and 'get her to act right"

 

[Billtx49]

He tried to fight thru it and 'get her to act right"

Yes, regardless of the money he has, he followed the same BPD trap and devalue sequence so many other men have. Including a few that have come to SS for their after the fact answers and resolution …

 

[Murk]

Yes, regardless of the money he has, he followed the same BPD trap and devalue sequence so many other men have.

He's a drug and alcohol abuser regardless of his money, he's going to succumb to BPD hoes naturally as a damaged man himself. I've been there.

 

[BuckledWheel]

I'm surprised Johnny won, glad to see men are finally starting to get some human rights back after decades of feminism

I’m glad that he’s cleared his name & revived his reputation. This wasn’t really about money in the first place, he was in a very dark corner. We’ve all been down that road. She walked all over him & he let her. That’s what happens when you want to bang chicks much younger than yourself. You tend to miss the red flags. This one was a life long lesson for him & men who followed the story.

 

[Murk]

I’m glad that he’s cleared his name & revived his reputation. This wasn’t really about money in the first place, he was in a very dark corner. We’ve all been down that road. She walked all over him & he let her. That’s what happens when you want to bang chicks much younger than yourself. You tend to miss the red flags. This one was a life long lesson for him & men who followed the story.

I think it's clear she was setting him up for the abuse/divorce settlement, hence her antagonising and recording him. However, her plan backfired and Johnny (being damaged) internalised her abuse, he went into self-harm mode rather than attacking her. Very lucky, he could have been provoked into hitting her just once, and been finished.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

All of this needs to be discussed. Men are a huge target, and the more you have to lose the bigger of a target you are. Your personal relationship can "end" you or minimally damage you or set you back greatly. This includes romantically with females and simply the male friends you associate with.

We're at this point where you more or less should consider to install CCTV in all the rooms of your flat/house recording 24/7 when you have females visiting you and/or you have a relationship with a chick for your own personal and financial safety.

 

[eli77]

This is all true but I want to bring up an opinion of mine which is that in most cases, a man's actions will cause a woman to lose respect for him and as a result, she will begin acting disrespectful to him. This is especially true with blue pill guys, or guys who haven't yet fully learned RP and how to handle women perfectly... like how not to get dragged down into arguments/fights/debates/circular-discussions while still listening to her and stating your point, as well as how to employ silence and distance. On the other hand, I firmly believe that when it comes to crazy women with rage/control issues, their disrespecting you does not originate from something you did causing them to lose respect for you nor does it mean they don't have respect for you; it is simply something they do to everyone close to them as a manifestation of their own internal emotions that they are unable to control. I know this might sound strange but another way of putting it is that a woman acting disrespectful toward you doesn't necessarily mean she has lost respect for you. Of course, if you tolerate the disrespectful behavior, then yes of course she will then also lose respect for you. Women also like to test men to see where the line is and to feel their strength; it helps them trust the man.

But at the end of the day:
- If she is acting disrespectful because she has lost respect for you, the proper action is to walk away.
- If she is acting disrespectful because she has mental problems but still has respect for you, the proper action is to walk away

The only reason I bring this up is because if you walk away from a crazy woman who acted disrespectful to you (the first and EVERY time she does it), she will beg you back like crazy. The girl I dated would have photos of us together printed and attach them to five-page hand-written letters and send them in the mail to me since I had blocked her on text, phone, social media, etc. The letters would go on and on about how I'm the most amazing man she has ever dated and that I'm perfect for her and that she knows we can make it work and that she knows he has things to work on herself and that she will get counseling and make changes blah blah blah. I'd never seen anything like it. YET, when I took her back, in days to weeks, she would have an episode and disrespect me again, which would cause me to respond the same away and walk away from her. Nothing ever changed for more than days or weeks. Women like this do NOT change, but there is a difference between them, and a woman who just needs to know your boundaries and will honor them once she understands them.

So some women just need to understand where your line is, and unless you walk away and ensure she knows you will never look back, then she will never truly know where your line is. This is why my advice, and how I operate, is that you should give all women one, maybe two chances before walking away for good and not going back no matter how much she begs or how hot she is or how amazing the sex is. But it depends on the severity of her disrespect too. But if the disrespect wasn't awful, I really believe giving her one chance after you walk away is necessary if she is someone you want to keep seeing; she needs that to understand where your line is and that you mean business. Another one or more violations and then you just need to accept that she either doesn't respect you, or she is a crazy b*tch who will forever be unable to control her emotions, just like Amber Heard.

A lesson some people learn earlier than others

 

[Bokanovsky]

What can we learn from Depp v. Heard? If you are rich and famous, can afford good lawyers and can mobilize an army of fans to sway public opinion, then sometimes you might be able to get a semblance of justice against a woman making false abuse allegations. To the rest of you, best of luck.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

What can we learn from Depp v. Heard? If you are rich and famous, can afford good lawyers and can mobilize an army of fans to sway public opinion, then sometimes you might be able to get a semblance of justice against a woman making false abuse allegations. To the rest of you, best of luck.

Rest of us, better make better choices...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

He's a drug and alcohol abuser regardless of his money, he's going to succumb to BPD hoes naturally as a damaged man himself. I've been there.

If he choose another Amber Hurd he's retarded... He was greatly damaged and lost alot dealing with her.

 

[Billtx49]

He's a drug and alcohol abuser regardless of his money, he's going to succumb to BPD hoes naturally as a damaged man himself. I've been there.

Not entirely true.
The most susceptible men to extremely damaged women are those that are emotionally thirsty, drug related or not.
Then along comes a girl that treats him like a porn star in bed and she turns his emotional void into lust.
She aggressively puts out the first lay by herself like she has an extremely high attraction level, then it’s 2-5 times a week, whenever they meet, including anything he wants to do…
After a week two, if not sooner, he’s informed she loves him, and It doesn’t even take a real date anymore for sex to happen automatically.

After that point in time, the phrase - ‘she fvcked his brains out’ becomes a reality when he starts automatically dismissing her red flags as they keep popping up daily or weekly …

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Bingo, it’s hard for a man to be loving and passionate after a woman takes a dump on his side of the bed…

Lol @ Amber Turd. What studio or man is going to touch her now? (with or without gloves)

 

[Billtx49]

Lol @ Amber Turd. What studio or man is going to touch her now? (with or without gloves)

Yep, She just professionally fvcked herself …
She’s history, he survives…

 

[DoubleBarrel]

The slanderer eventually only succeeds at ruining their own reputation.

 

[Zimbabwe]

I think it's clear she was setting him up for the abuse/divorce settlement, hence her antagonising and recording him. However, her plan backfired and Johnny (being damaged) internalised her abuse, he went into self-harm mode rather than attacking her. Very lucky, he could have been provoked into hitting her just once, and been finished.

You ever watch the movie 'Gone Girl'? Amber Heard reminds me exactly of that chick.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You ever watch the movie 'Gone Girl'? Amber Heard reminds me exactly of that chick.

I was thinking more Girl, Interrupted myself. Lol