"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What was your WORST Approach Experience?

Mike24ct

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I was in New Haven with my wing one night. We went into this bar and were looking around for women to chat with.

My wing points out a group of three women. I say ok, I'm going in. I start chatting with one of the women. Then....out of nowhere, comes a 300lb+ AMOG who literally GROWLED at me, SHOWED ALL OF HIS TEETH like some kind of wild animal and yelled "THAT'S MY GIRL."

I whisper to my wing...."Umm we better get out of here, JAWS is after me lol."

I then said "Sorry man" and we took off.

Mike
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GateKeeper

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:woo: haha.

I tripped in front of the girl I was filrting with. Yep. I'm not proud of the experience either, considering I was in front of a lot of people I knew as well. :) Gravity, who needs it.
 

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Haha, Jaws...good one.

One of my very first approaches, I asked to sit and eat with this really cute girl. My hands were freaking shaking like I had Parkinson's disease. I was so extremely nervous...my face would go red, and I would stutter too. There were so many awkward silences...and I even had the nerve to ask for her number afterwards. Haha, I was such an idiot.

What's worse is I ran into the same girl a few more times later on. It was pretty damn awkward...

Lesson learned: people don't like being around nervous people. Good thing I don't freeze up like that any more.

Although, only a week or so ago, I approached this girl at the dining hall...and her boyfriend came to join us. I thought it would be awkward, but it actually turned out very okay, and I got to know both of them. Again, lesson I learned is, as long as you're not nervous, but cool/relaxed...any situation will go a ton smoother.
 

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was on a boat party about a year ago, i started giving this girl EC.
she walked over (i was sitting down), and reached out to pull me up to go dance with her (i was half drunk).

i stood up too fast and headbutted her and gave her a cut above the eye lol was soooo embarassing..
 

h2o

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Originally posted by dexxl
was on a boat party about a year ago, i started giving this girl EC.
she walked over (i was sitting down), and reached out to pull me up to go dance with her (i was half drunk).

i stood up too fast and headbutted her and gave her a cut above the eye lol was soooo embarassing..
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: hilarious man...nice going :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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flyinshark

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Originally posted by dexxl
was on a boat party about a year ago, i started giving this girl EC.
she walked over (i was sitting down), and reached out to pull me up to go dance with her (i was half drunk).

i stood up too fast and headbutted her and gave her a cut above the eye lol was soooo embarassing..

HAHAHA:crackup: Good one.

As for my worst approach experience, i once went clubbing while i was in vacation in the Dominican Republic. I saw a girl walking and i asked her "Hey, you wanna dance?". She looked at me for a sec, then coldly said "No" and left. I barely had time to say "ok" and she was gone. That was really weird..
 
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