"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What was your WORST Approach Experience?

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I was in New Haven with my wing one night. We went into this bar and were looking around for women to chat with.

My wing points out a group of three women. I say ok, I'm going in. I start chatting with one of the women. Then....out of nowhere, comes a 300lb+ AMOG who literally GROWLED at me, SHOWED ALL OF HIS TEETH like some kind of wild animal and yelled "THAT'S MY GIRL."

I whisper to my wing...."Umm we better get out of here, JAWS is after me lol."

I then said "Sorry man" and we took off.

Mike
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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:woo: haha.

I tripped in front of the girl I was filrting with. Yep. I'm not proud of the experience either, considering I was in front of a lot of people I knew as well. :) Gravity, who needs it.
 
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Haha, Jaws...good one.

One of my very first approaches, I asked to sit and eat with this really cute girl. My hands were freaking shaking like I had Parkinson's disease. I was so extremely nervous...my face would go red, and I would stutter too. There were so many awkward silences...and I even had the nerve to ask for her number afterwards. Haha, I was such an idiot.

What's worse is I ran into the same girl a few more times later on. It was pretty damn awkward...

Lesson learned: people don't like being around nervous people. Good thing I don't freeze up like that any more.

Although, only a week or so ago, I approached this girl at the dining hall...and her boyfriend came to join us. I thought it would be awkward, but it actually turned out very okay, and I got to know both of them. Again, lesson I learned is, as long as you're not nervous, but cool/relaxed...any situation will go a ton smoother.
 
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was on a boat party about a year ago, i started giving this girl EC.
she walked over (i was sitting down), and reached out to pull me up to go dance with her (i was half drunk).

i stood up too fast and headbutted her and gave her a cut above the eye lol was soooo embarassing..
 
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Originally posted by dexxl
was on a boat party about a year ago, i started giving this girl EC.
she walked over (i was sitting down), and reached out to pull me up to go dance with her (i was half drunk).

i stood up too fast and headbutted her and gave her a cut above the eye lol was soooo embarassing..
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: hilarious man...nice going :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by dexxl
was on a boat party about a year ago, i started giving this girl EC.
she walked over (i was sitting down), and reached out to pull me up to go dance with her (i was half drunk).

i stood up too fast and headbutted her and gave her a cut above the eye lol was soooo embarassing..
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HAHAHA:crackup: Good one.

As for my worst approach experience, i once went clubbing while i was in vacation in the Dominican Republic. I saw a girl walking and i asked her "Hey, you wanna dance?". She looked at me for a sec, then coldly said "No" and left. I barely had time to say "ok" and she was gone. That was really weird..
 
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