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What was your experience with "Spring Break" trips as a college-age lad?

MatureDJ

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For me it was OK when going to the place (Emerald Coast) that everybody from my town went to, since there were always some social circles to exploit, but the one year I went to different town (Daytona), it was Mog City - an early indication of what the future of OLD would be. :(
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Never went. Spent breaks studying and working while commuting to school and then covid killed everything else in my final years of education. I'm headed down south in a week here and will likely cross paths with the college age crowd though.
 

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Overrated. You live in a dirty room or barely presentable one with other college kids. The hot girls are off trying to sleep with athletes on break or with older guys that have nicer hotels. Lots of drinking and usually no one gets laid. The ones who get laid already know who they were gonna smash before the trip.
 

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Had fun. No major luck with the ladies but it was great to be away from home and have some semblance of what I perceived as freedom.
 

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I traveled back home to work. $$$$. Never heard of such a thing.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Overrated. You live in a dirty room or barely presentable one with other college kids. The hot girls are off trying to sleep with athletes on break or with older guys that have nicer hotels. Lots of drinking and usually no one gets laid. The ones who get laid already know who they were gonna smash before the trip.
You are correct that Spring Break in the party locations is more about getting drunk than getting laid.

Logistics are one of the most difficult things about getting laid on Spring Break. Lots of males and females are sharing rooms with other people, so getting privacy for sex can be challenging.

The best logistics play for Spring Break sex is to get your own hotel room for privacy.

Spring Break can be considered a bit redundant. For men who already go to colleges with a big party atmosphere, most regular weekends near campus mimic Spring Break quite well. We have a great thread about college sex life at universities with bigger party atmospheres.

 

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Never bothered, never appealed to me. Spent spring break seeing America. Trips to national parks with buddies, or to NYC. If we got laid we got laid. Plenty of that back on campus.
 

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For the 18-20 year old undergrads, Spring Break can often involve going to a Mexican beach city like Cancun, Acapulco, and Puerto Vallarta.

Mexican beach cities are often more dangerous than the Spring Break destinations in the USA, such as Daytona Beach, South Padre Island, or Lake Havasu (Arizona/California border).

If a man must absolutely do Spring Break, I would recommend doing it junior/senior year when he's already 21 and doing it in the USA. It's going to be a little bit safer and he's slightly more mature.

Even a USA spring break at ages 21/22 is overrated per @Jesse Pinkman
 

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Never did the whole Spring Break thing. Never thought I'd go to college .. always thought I'd make it selling drugs and or doing business lol

Ofc, I did go to college when I was 25 and had alot of fun but was already partying so often.. couldn't see myself flying out to another state to do the same sh.t .. was never a follower in that sense
 

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Never went to a Spring Break Location (as seen on MTV). My frat bros who did, were more about the drinking than meeting girls.

I usually used it to interview for my summer job that I would have 2 months later.
 
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