"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What type of music should you play in the car during a date?

tsmith2334

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Captin Krunch said:
and to tsmith- i agree that it has some bad artists but which genre of music doesnt?
That was my point.

The rappers I listen to are talented. Not that "Chain Hang Low" trash.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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King Turi

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Well, I just play whatever music I'm into at the time.

If she really can't stand it, she'll say it's crap and I'll tell her "get fvcked it's awesome" and maybe turn it down a bit.

I listen to basically anything, but I can't stand techno.

EDIT:

I listen to emo bands a lot. Not the kind that scream all the time, the kind that actually sings and has some awesome chorus'.

Not random crap like Parkway Drive, can't stand screamo - but like emo.
 

J Roc

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San Jose California said:
I'm not singling out rap. I'm singling out the sh!it people listen to. A tribe called quest, beastie boys, those are good rap bands, songs like ridin dirty and lean with it rock with it are not.
songs like "lean with it rock with it" by Dem Franchize Boyz and "donk" by soulja boy are good in certain settings like a beach party ora dance club. I like A tribe called Qwest but I wouldnt dare put that type of music on in a party setting because most women would not dance to it.
 

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if she really is a cool chick, she wouldn't mind, but i know those types are rare haha...if she doesn't like it -tell her to relax or "take the honda del STROLL"
 

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The mainstream of any genre is typically going to be dominated by crap because it's designed to appeal to the lowest common denominator in order to sell as many units as possible. If you want quality anything, you're generally going to have to go looking for it.

As for the question of this thread, play whatever the hell you want. I can see why some people prefer to just keep it turned down in the background, but personally I like to crank whatever I'm listening to and give her a silly serenade. The more outrageous, the better. Gets her laughing and gets the energy level up. Works like a charm.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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