"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What type of music should you play in the car during a date?

tsmith2334

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Captin Krunch said:
and to tsmith- i agree that it has some bad artists but which genre of music doesnt?
That was my point.

The rappers I listen to are talented. Not that "Chain Hang Low" trash.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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King Turi

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Well, I just play whatever music I'm into at the time.

If she really can't stand it, she'll say it's crap and I'll tell her "get fvcked it's awesome" and maybe turn it down a bit.

I listen to basically anything, but I can't stand techno.

EDIT:

I listen to emo bands a lot. Not the kind that scream all the time, the kind that actually sings and has some awesome chorus'.

Not random crap like Parkway Drive, can't stand screamo - but like emo.
 

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San Jose California said:
I'm not singling out rap. I'm singling out the sh!it people listen to. A tribe called quest, beastie boys, those are good rap bands, songs like ridin dirty and lean with it rock with it are not.
songs like "lean with it rock with it" by Dem Franchize Boyz and "donk" by soulja boy are good in certain settings like a beach party ora dance club. I like A tribe called Qwest but I wouldnt dare put that type of music on in a party setting because most women would not dance to it.
 

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if she really is a cool chick, she wouldn't mind, but i know those types are rare haha...if she doesn't like it -tell her to relax or "take the honda del STROLL"
 

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The mainstream of any genre is typically going to be dominated by crap because it's designed to appeal to the lowest common denominator in order to sell as many units as possible. If you want quality anything, you're generally going to have to go looking for it.

As for the question of this thread, play whatever the hell you want. I can see why some people prefer to just keep it turned down in the background, but personally I like to crank whatever I'm listening to and give her a silly serenade. The more outrageous, the better. Gets her laughing and gets the energy level up. Works like a charm.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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