"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What type of men are hauling the most ass where you live

Dhoulmagus

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top) fraternity guys that act redneck, country, southern) These guys are clearly at the top and there's nothing you can do to compete with them.

mid) Pretty boys in fraternities) Not as successful as there bigger counterparts

bottom) Fraternity guys that don't fit in the top two, independents, and guys with game. Note, guys with game get girls, but they have to put a lot of effort and can't pull quality girls like the above two.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don_Dom

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Just curious, where are you? Sounds a lot like where I went to school.
 

Dhoulmagus

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Don_Dom said:
Just curious, where are you? Sounds a lot like where I went to school.
University of Tennesssee, did you go to a sec school?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don_Dom said:
Indeed. Roll Tide. :)
roll tide man, I would have gone to bama, but Tn offered me more scholarships. I feel like a british soldier living in New England at the crack of the revolution.
 

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hehe don't think we have any rednecks in UK (and, even if we did, they wouldn't get any kind of a$$)
 

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joker79 said:
hehe don't think we have any rednecks in UK (and, even if we did, they wouldn't get any kind of a$$)
Jeremy Kyle finds some awful people who manage to regularly breed
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've said this before, and this is very different from what they say on this board: But the guys I know who pull the most @ss are the guys who try the hardest to pull @ss. These guys care about little else other than getting laid. As a result, they are obsessed with it, and are always trying to get into some girl's pants.

The quality they get varies widely, from real hotties to outright dogs. They don't come across as desperate because they actually do get laid a lot. But it's a bit like certain athletes - the ones who care the most put the work in. I don't find these guys admirable, but they put in the effort (and get the results) because that's about all they care about.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
roll tide man, I would have gone to bama, but Tn offered me more scholarships. I feel like a british soldier living in New England at the crack of the revolution.
Are you from another region? Bama was brutal for people from other parts of the country of they didn't try to understand the deal there. My friend from New Jersey did okay, though, because he had fun with it.

There's a difference between "southern" and "redneck." If you work your way out from there things will probably go a bit smoother.
 

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joker79 said:
hehe don't think we have any rednecks in UK (and, even if we did, they wouldn't get any kind of a$$)
Oh you do. They just aren't called that.
 
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