"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What type of men are hauling the most ass where you live

Dhoulmagus

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top) fraternity guys that act redneck, country, southern) These guys are clearly at the top and there's nothing you can do to compete with them.

mid) Pretty boys in fraternities) Not as successful as there bigger counterparts

bottom) Fraternity guys that don't fit in the top two, independents, and guys with game. Note, guys with game get girls, but they have to put a lot of effort and can't pull quality girls like the above two.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don_Dom

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Just curious, where are you? Sounds a lot like where I went to school.
 

Dhoulmagus

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Don_Dom said:
Just curious, where are you? Sounds a lot like where I went to school.
University of Tennesssee, did you go to a sec school?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don_Dom said:
Indeed. Roll Tide. :)
roll tide man, I would have gone to bama, but Tn offered me more scholarships. I feel like a british soldier living in New England at the crack of the revolution.
 

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hehe don't think we have any rednecks in UK (and, even if we did, they wouldn't get any kind of a$$)
 

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joker79 said:
hehe don't think we have any rednecks in UK (and, even if we did, they wouldn't get any kind of a$$)
Jeremy Kyle finds some awful people who manage to regularly breed
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've said this before, and this is very different from what they say on this board: But the guys I know who pull the most @ss are the guys who try the hardest to pull @ss. These guys care about little else other than getting laid. As a result, they are obsessed with it, and are always trying to get into some girl's pants.

The quality they get varies widely, from real hotties to outright dogs. They don't come across as desperate because they actually do get laid a lot. But it's a bit like certain athletes - the ones who care the most put the work in. I don't find these guys admirable, but they put in the effort (and get the results) because that's about all they care about.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
roll tide man, I would have gone to bama, but Tn offered me more scholarships. I feel like a british soldier living in New England at the crack of the revolution.
Are you from another region? Bama was brutal for people from other parts of the country of they didn't try to understand the deal there. My friend from New Jersey did okay, though, because he had fun with it.

There's a difference between "southern" and "redneck." If you work your way out from there things will probably go a bit smoother.
 

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joker79 said:
hehe don't think we have any rednecks in UK (and, even if we did, they wouldn't get any kind of a$$)
Oh you do. They just aren't called that.
 
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