"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What type of men are hauling the most ass where you live

Dhoulmagus

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top) fraternity guys that act redneck, country, southern) These guys are clearly at the top and there's nothing you can do to compete with them.

mid) Pretty boys in fraternities) Not as successful as there bigger counterparts

bottom) Fraternity guys that don't fit in the top two, independents, and guys with game. Note, guys with game get girls, but they have to put a lot of effort and can't pull quality girls like the above two.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don_Dom

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Just curious, where are you? Sounds a lot like where I went to school.
 

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Don_Dom said:
Just curious, where are you? Sounds a lot like where I went to school.
University of Tennesssee, did you go to a sec school?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don_Dom said:
Indeed. Roll Tide. :)
roll tide man, I would have gone to bama, but Tn offered me more scholarships. I feel like a british soldier living in New England at the crack of the revolution.
 

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hehe don't think we have any rednecks in UK (and, even if we did, they wouldn't get any kind of a$$)
 

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joker79 said:
hehe don't think we have any rednecks in UK (and, even if we did, they wouldn't get any kind of a$$)
Jeremy Kyle finds some awful people who manage to regularly breed
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've said this before, and this is very different from what they say on this board: But the guys I know who pull the most @ss are the guys who try the hardest to pull @ss. These guys care about little else other than getting laid. As a result, they are obsessed with it, and are always trying to get into some girl's pants.

The quality they get varies widely, from real hotties to outright dogs. They don't come across as desperate because they actually do get laid a lot. But it's a bit like certain athletes - the ones who care the most put the work in. I don't find these guys admirable, but they put in the effort (and get the results) because that's about all they care about.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
roll tide man, I would have gone to bama, but Tn offered me more scholarships. I feel like a british soldier living in New England at the crack of the revolution.
Are you from another region? Bama was brutal for people from other parts of the country of they didn't try to understand the deal there. My friend from New Jersey did okay, though, because he had fun with it.

There's a difference between "southern" and "redneck." If you work your way out from there things will probably go a bit smoother.
 

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joker79 said:
hehe don't think we have any rednecks in UK (and, even if we did, they wouldn't get any kind of a$$)
Oh you do. They just aren't called that.
 
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