"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What to write to her now????

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Pick-up: very ****y and funny, she had to laugh a lot. It was fun! She gave me her number without problems.

Then two days later sms-writing:

ME: hey....[a little bit of ****y and funny]
how r u?

Her: hey I guess you're the guy who approached me in....

ME: yes that's me...[****y and funny question]

Her: [answered my ****y and funny question] how r u?

Me: I'm fine...hey lets meet to have a drink together. I'm ver busy on Thursday and Friday but on Saturday I have a little bit of time. Let's say from 4 to 6 o'clock. I'm in the town anyway.

now it's thursday and she didnt answered neither my last sms nor my call (I called her on Wednesday because she didn't answered my last sms on Tuesday).

What would you guys do? If I'm gonna wirte her what should I write? What's your opinion?

Thanks! :cheer:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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xblitz44x

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Out of curiosity, why did you bother to state how busy you were on Thursday and Friday? Couldn't you just have said: "Do you want to get together on Saturday?" I think you sounded like you were going out of the way to convince her that you were a cool guy who has plans.

However, that's probably not even why she hasn't messaged you back yet. Who knows the real reason? Maybe she just isn't interested enough in a stranger she met on the street. Maybe she had another offer and you just aren't that important in her world yet. Regardless, don't get pissy and impatient. Hang in there.

If you don't hear from her, I'd call her again on Monday and ask her out for sometime during the week. If that doesn't work out, write it off.
 

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I would call her up,not text message. Get used to her voice over the phone and in person.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Puuuh:

She wrote me back:

"Hi Im sorry that I didnt write you back soon. I would really like to meet you on Saturday but I'm busy then. What about next week? Bye..."


CYA guys...
 

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Originally posted by Master of Seduction
Puuuh:

She wrote me back:

"Hi Im sorry that I didnt write you back soon. I would really like to meet you on Saturday but I'm busy then. What about next week? Bye..."


CYA guys...
I'd text her back with something like this:

"well...alright. Next week it is, but try to keep yourself more organised in the future.... I'm not gonna wait around forever ya know ;)"


I take no responsibility if that comment f*cks things up for you....I'm just telling what I would do.

If she flakes again then NEXT.
 

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I think she is going to be a flake, as you stated you were really ****y and funny and had her dieing. Yep she was hyped up at that time but when you left it kinda died down and now she isnt as hyped as before. What you should have done was gain alittle rapport so the chances of her flaking is lower. If she does go out next week then thats great but you cutting your chances by not gaining no rapport in sets after being so C&F.
 
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