"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to write to her now????

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Pick-up: very ****y and funny, she had to laugh a lot. It was fun! She gave me her number without problems.

Then two days later sms-writing:

ME: hey....[a little bit of ****y and funny]
how r u?

Her: hey I guess you're the guy who approached me in....

ME: yes that's me...[****y and funny question]

Her: [answered my ****y and funny question] how r u?

Me: I'm fine...hey lets meet to have a drink together. I'm ver busy on Thursday and Friday but on Saturday I have a little bit of time. Let's say from 4 to 6 o'clock. I'm in the town anyway.

now it's thursday and she didnt answered neither my last sms nor my call (I called her on Wednesday because she didn't answered my last sms on Tuesday).

What would you guys do? If I'm gonna wirte her what should I write? What's your opinion?

Thanks! :cheer:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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xblitz44x

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Out of curiosity, why did you bother to state how busy you were on Thursday and Friday? Couldn't you just have said: "Do you want to get together on Saturday?" I think you sounded like you were going out of the way to convince her that you were a cool guy who has plans.

However, that's probably not even why she hasn't messaged you back yet. Who knows the real reason? Maybe she just isn't interested enough in a stranger she met on the street. Maybe she had another offer and you just aren't that important in her world yet. Regardless, don't get pissy and impatient. Hang in there.

If you don't hear from her, I'd call her again on Monday and ask her out for sometime during the week. If that doesn't work out, write it off.
 

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I would call her up,not text message. Get used to her voice over the phone and in person.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Puuuh:

She wrote me back:

"Hi Im sorry that I didnt write you back soon. I would really like to meet you on Saturday but I'm busy then. What about next week? Bye..."


CYA guys...
 

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Originally posted by Master of Seduction
Puuuh:

She wrote me back:

"Hi Im sorry that I didnt write you back soon. I would really like to meet you on Saturday but I'm busy then. What about next week? Bye..."


CYA guys...
I'd text her back with something like this:

"well...alright. Next week it is, but try to keep yourself more organised in the future.... I'm not gonna wait around forever ya know ;)"


I take no responsibility if that comment f*cks things up for you....I'm just telling what I would do.

If she flakes again then NEXT.
 

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I think she is going to be a flake, as you stated you were really ****y and funny and had her dieing. Yep she was hyped up at that time but when you left it kinda died down and now she isnt as hyped as before. What you should have done was gain alittle rapport so the chances of her flaking is lower. If she does go out next week then thats great but you cutting your chances by not gaining no rapport in sets after being so C&F.
 
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